Iindlela ezi-5 zokusingatha abathengi abaqeda iinkonzo zakho
Fumana iNgxaki yeNgxaki
Abaxhasi kunye nabathengi banqabileyo ishishini ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kungekhona zonke ezikuzo.
Umxhasi unokuba nobunzima bezezimali kwaye akakwazi ukukunceda. Okanye iimfuno zakhe zitshintshile kwaye azibandakanyi iinkonzo ezivela kuwe. Umthengi angabuyisela umkhiqizo ngenxa yokuba awuhambisani neemfuno zabo.
Ngaloo nto uthe, ukugatywa kungabikho ngenxa yokuba abanakuvuyela inkonzo yakho kunye nemveliso. Ukufunda ukuba kutheni unqatshelwe ingakunika ithuba lokuba ulilungise ukugcina ibhizinisi, okanye ubuncinci ukuba unqume ukuba ufuna ukwenza utshintsho oluyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba akenzeki kwakhona. Le yilapho ukuhlolwa kweengxelo rhoqo kunokukunceda ukuba ugweme ukulahlekelwa ngabaxumi kunye nabathengi.
Khumbula, Akusikho Ngewe
Nokuba ngaba abathengi okanye abathengi banqabe inkonzo okanye umkhiqizo ngenxa yokuba abayithandi, oko akuthethi ukuba abakuthandi. Ukurhoxiswa nokugxeka kwishishini lasekhaya malunga nebhizinisi lakho kwaye akubonakali njengomntu, ucinga ukuba unikezela ngemveliso esemgangathweni kunye neenkonzo, kunye nenkxaso yabathengi .
Ukuxothwa okanye ukugxekwa okanye ukuphazamisa okanye ukucaphukisa abantu abaninzi. Impendulo ngokuqhelekileyo ifuna ukuyeka okanye ukuzikhusela. Ukuba unokwazi ukwahlula ukurhoxiswa kwebhizinisi kuwe njengomntu, kuya kuba lula ukuba ube nenjongo kunye nokulawula iimvakalelo.
Hlalani ngoBungcali
Impendulo yokuqala yokuxothwa okanye ukulahlwa kaninzi ukulwa, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza oko njengoko kunokulimaza ishishini lakho .
Qalisa ishishini lakho ngesiqubulo esithi, "Bulale ngobubele." Andikwazi ukukuxelela ukuba zingaphi uxolo endiyifumene emva kokufumana i-imeyile enentsingiselo, engathandekiyo, esoloko ihlaselayo. Ndandibonisa inkxalabo, ndacela uxolo kwaye ndinikela ukunceda, kwaye umkhalazi uvakalelwa kukuba ngaba yinto enzima (ukuba ayenjalo, andifuni ukusebenza nabo!).
Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje kunye namajelo aseburhulumenteni kunye namaziko okuphonononga, awukwazi ukukwazi ukuthetha, ulunge kwaye unononophelo, nokuba ngaba umthengi okanye umthengi ufanelwe. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka uhlale umnikelo wokufundisa ukulungisa okanye ukunceda kwimeko, okanye mhlawumbi ukhombise ezinye izinto zokusebenza. Nangona ungafumani uxolo, ungazi ukuba uthathe indlela ephakamileyo kwaye ungumuntu ongcono.
Sebenzisa UkuNqandwa Ukuphucula
Nangona abanye abathengi kunye nabathengi bengenangqiqo okanye kunzima, apho mhlawumbi ungafuni ukusebenza nabo nantoni na, ngamanye amaxesha ukulahlwa kwakho kukufanelekile. Kufuneka uphulaphule izizathu zazo kwaye uyicinge ngempendulo malunga nendlela onokuphucula ngayo ishishini lakho. Ingaba inkonzo yakho iyanciphisa okanye ayikho kwizinto ezizilindeleyo? Le yimihlaba onokuyiphucula kuyo. Ngaba inkqubo yolawulo iyinkimbinkimbi okanye umkhiqizo awusebenzi, unokulungisa oko.
Soloko uThengisa
Ngona owona mhle, abathengi abathembekileyo kunye nabathengi baya kuhamba ngenye imini. Kukho ukugqithisa nokuphuma kumashishini akho, kunye nakwiimfuno zabaxumi kunye nabaxhasi. Ukulahlekelwa ngumthengi okanye umthengi kunokukhathazeka kwaye kuyatshwenyeka, kodwa ukuba uthengisa kwaye usoloko ukhangele ukuhanjiswa , kufuneka ukwazi ukutshintshela ishishini elilahlekileyo ngeshishini elitsha. Akukho suku kufuneka luhambe ngokuba awuzange wenze into ekuboniseni ishishini lakho kwiimarike ezijoliswe kuyo, ezifana nokubloga, imidiya yoluntu, ukuthengisa okanye ukucela ukuhanjiswa.