Ukufumana Uninzi lwezoNxibelelwano zoNxibelelwano
Ngokudabukisayo, abaninzi abantu baqala ngeqela lezonxibelelwano ngokukhangela ukuzuza ngokukhawuleza. Oko kukuthi, ngenxa yeziphumo ezilungileyo kubo.
Ukuba ngulokho ozama ukufezekisa, unxibelelwano ngezizathu ezingafanelekanga kwaye uya kubambelela njengesigubungelo esibi.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba ubukhulu beqela lokunxibelelana lenza umehluko ekunxibelelaneni. Xa amaqela aqala ukuwa ngobungakanani, amalungu athi, "kufuneka sakha amanani ethu." Ngoku, ziphi na iinombolo ezibhekiselele kuzo? Ingaba inani labathathi-nxaxheba? Ndingaba ngumntu weqela elinxibelelwano labantu ababini abanokukuncedana rhoqo kwaye babe neqela elikhulu labantu abashishini abangabalandeli iMithetho Eyishumi yeNethiwekhi. Akulona ubungakanani, umgangatho.
"Andikho nasiphi na ikhokelo!" Ndixolele, unikwe omnye, na? Okanye, ngaba wenze isiphakamiso esinokukunceda ilungu elinye? Ngaba wambiza nabani na ukuncoma kwaye uthi, "Ndandifuna ukuba ukwazi, Jim, ukuba amazwana akho kwandiso lwe-XYZ yayilungile kwimali." Omnye kufuneka azimisele ukubeka ixesha elinde kwakhona.
Kungathatha ixesha ngaphambi kokuba abantu bazive bekhululekile ngokunikezela ukuthunyelwa.
Amaqela enethiwekhi aya kuza ahambe. Ukuze ufumane uninzi lwamava okunxibelelana, kufuneka ukhethe ubudlelwane nabantu ofuna ukudibana nabo. Akunamalungu onke aya kuba nako ukunceda, kwaye awuyi kuba nako ukunceda.
Oko akuthethi ukuba ufanele uwatyebe! Ndisaba nolwalamano oluqinileyo nabahlobo bam intanethi ukusuka kumaqela aphelile.
Xa unxibelelwano, sebenzisa ixesha lakho kunye nemigudu kubantu abanokuncedana ngaphandle, ixesha elide. Lonto ilungile. Le projekthi yesikhathi eside. Amaxesha amaninzi ndiye kwintlangano yezonxibelelwano zezoshishino kwaye ndibonile abantu bebaleka ngokusuka kumntu ukuya kumntu, kunye nokulindela kokuqala ukunika ikhadi labo leshishini kwaye benethemba lokuqokelela ikhadi lomnye umntu. Unokwakha njani ubuhlobo nomntu xa injongo yakho ukuphuma apho, kwaye uqoke amakhadi? Amanye amaqela anxibelelwano enza umdlalo ngaphandle kuwo ukuze abone ngubani onokuqokelela kakhulu ngexesha elithile. Yeyiphi inkunkuma yamakhadi webhishini!
Uya kufumana ukuba umnxibelelwano osebenzayo "uza kusebenza umnatha". Oko ndiyithethayo kukuba baya kungena kumsebenzi ngenjongo yokucinga. Injongo yam yesiqhelo xa intanethi yezoshishino inokulindela ukuba "ndiya kudibana" kwaye "ndiyiqonde" abantu abathathu kuphela kwisiganeko. Ndiyazi ukuba ndihlobo luni lomntu onokukunceda kwaye ndikulindele ukuba lo mntu uya kwenza okufanayo kum. Iimeko eziphumeleleyo / eziphambili ndizithetha ngazo. Umnatha womnatha osebenzayo uya kuthatha ixesha lokuhlakulela ulwalamano.
Emva kwesiganeko sokunxibelelana kweshishini xa uqala umsebenzi wokuqala. Emva kwakho konke, uhlala kwisiganeko sokunxibelelana ukuze udibane kunye nokwakha ingxelo. Landela i-ASAP. Ngoku yisihlandlo sokuthumela ikhadi elimnandi, kwaye ubize iintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuba ulungise ixesha lokudibana nekhofi okanye ukuhlwa. Yilapho unokuphulaphula iinkcukacha zento "umhlobo" omtsha ofuna ngayo. Unokufumana ithuba lokuba unikele ngempahla yakho kunye neenkonzo, kuphela emva kokuphulaphula.
Ukuba ufuna ukufumana uninzi kunxibelelwano lwezoshishino, landela iMithetho Eyishumi ye-Networking!
- 1) Uzolahla "into ekhoyo kum?" sengqondo.
- 2) Uya kuphulaphula.
- 3) Uya kwakha ubudlelwane.
- 4) Uya kunika ukuthunyelwa kokuqala.
- 5) Uze ungaxeleli abanye ngokudluliselwa okufunekayo; 'uya kubakhombisa' ibali.
- 6) Uza kuba yinto ekhethekileyo yohlobo lokuthunyelwa.
- 7) Uya kulungelelanisa xa kufanelekile.
- 8) Uya kuthatha inxaxheba kwi-network management, imisebenzi kunye nexesha lokunxibelelana.
- 9) Uya kumbulela umntu owanikezela ukuthunyelwa.
- 10) Uza kulandela emva kokuthunyelwa ngaphakathi kweeyure ezingama-24.
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