Ukuqala Iifowuni Zakho Zezoshishino zeeMvu ezivulekileyo
Ndinike le ngcebiso. (Jonga kwiiNtetho ezili-10 eziphezulu zokuQala iBhizinisi elincinci eliya kuphumelela , umzekelo.)
Kodwa iminyaka yokucebisa abantu abafuna ukuqala amashishini abo kunye nokubukela ukuba bahambe kwinkqubo yokuqalisa baye bandifundisa ukuba ndiphosakele.
Okanye, ubuncinane, (kuba nomusa kum), kubantu abaninzi, eli cebiso lidukisa.
Ngokukodwa xa usesiteji sokuqala ishishini lakho apho ulahlela malunga neengcamango nokugqiba uhlobo lushishino ofuna ukuqala ngalo, ukhetha ukuqala ishishini elisekelwe kwinto oyithandayo kunokukukhokelela kwindlela eqhutywa ngqo isalathiso esingafanelekanga - okanye nangaphezulu kweentlanzi.
Akufanele wenze okuthandayo ngenxa yokuba:
1. Uthando luyimfama.
Ndiyazi ukuba i-cliché, kodwa yinyaniso. Cinga ngethuba lokugqibela "wathandana" nomntu. Ngumlingo, akunjalo? Kodwa ixesha lidlulayo, njengoko lisoloko lwenzeka, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uqala ukuphawula izinto malunga nentanda yakho endiyithandileyo engazange uyiqaphele ngaphambili - izinto ezingabonakaliyo kuphela kodwa zithukuthelisa kwaye mhlawumbi zingekho.
Uhambo olufanayo lwemoya luyenzeka xa uthanda ngombono othile okanye uhlobo lweshishini. Umzekelo, unokuthanda umxholo wokuqalisa iBheteli kunye neKhefesi yakho. Uzijonga wena uhleli kwindawo yokudlela ephumayo ye-B & B yakho yokuxoxa kunye neendwendwe zakho ezithakazelisayo.
Ukuba ngaba uvula i-Bed and Breakfast Breakfast, ufumanisa ukuba mhlawumbi wayenaso ixesha lokuthetha naye nabani na ngenxa yokuba uxakeke kakhulu ukwenza, ukukhonza nokucoca ukutya kwasekuseni. Usenokufumanisa ukuba awuyithandi ukulungiselela isidlo sakusasa kwabanye abantu.
Uthando lushukela umboniso wakho kwaye lukhumbule iimpazamo.
Udinga ukwazi ukuba uluphi uhlobo lwezoshishino ozikhethayo luyathanda, kungekhona oko ucingayo okanye ithemba elikuyo.
2. Uthando luzama ukuba uthathe amancinci.
Esinye isizathu sokuba uthando nokuqalisa ishishini lakho akuxube kukuba sithandwa ukuba abanye abantu bayakuthanda ngubani okanye into esithandayo. Ngubani ongabonanga ukuphazamiseka kokuqonda ukuba umntu obalulekileyo kuye akathandi umthandayo? Iimeko ezingenakuzikhusela ezinokubangela ukuba uzive uvakalelwa kunye nokulahleka kobuhlobo.
Xa uqala ishishini lakho ngokusekelwe kwinto oyithandayo, ukucinga ukuba abanye abantu bayayithanda nayo ingaba yingozi kakhulu. Xa uhamba phambili, uqala ishishini lakho ngaphandle kokwenza uphando oluya kufumanisa ukuba okanye abanye abantu bathanda into oyithandayo, uqobo udlala ingcakaza ngobomi bakho. Kuthekani ukuba ayenayo kwaye utyalombile yonke imali oyilondolozile, umzekelo, okanye ukubuyisela ekhaya lakho ikhaya?
Yonke imbono yoshishino kufuneka iphandwe ngokuphandle kwaye ihlolwe ukuba ibone ukuba ingenise ithuba elifanelekileyo lorhwebo. Cinga ukuba ungathanda ukwenza nantoni na ocinga ngayo ukwenza ishishini? Bhala isicwangciso seshishini uze ubone ukuba ingcamango ingenanto.
3. Uthando lwenza ube nengqiqo.
Xa sithandana, sithanda ukubona yonke into ukusuka kwimbono yokujonga imizwa, kunokuba ibe nengqiqo.
Yingakho siyichaza "njengentloko phezu kwezithende". Ngokuqinisekileyo akusiyo imeko efanelekileyo ukuba ube nayo xa uqala ishishini lakho kwaye uzama ukukhetha imbono yezoshishino okanye ishishini elikhoyo eliya kuba lilungele kuwe.
Ngokomzekelo, enye iveki ndava ukuba ivenkile yeefiya yendawo yendawo ithengiswa. Kwafuneka ndihambe ndiyibone njengoko ndihlala ndiyithanda ingcamango yokuqhuba indawo enjalo. Kwaye ngokwenyama, ivenkile yekhofi yayingekho ukudumala; Kwakunayo yonke umoya kunye nokudibanisa endithembele kuyo, ngokuya kwizinto ezikhethiweyo ezihlobisa izindonga. Intliziyo yam ibetha! Ndandizibona ndidibanisa i-lattés ezimnandi kunye ne-cappuccinos kwisihlwele esixabisayo.
Ngoku ukuba ndiyayivumele ukuba intliziyo yam ibangikhokele, ndiyithenge ivenkile yesitolo. Ngethamsanqa, andizange. Endaweni yoko, ndahlala phantsi ndaza ndenza uphando ukuze ndikwazi ukwenza ixabiso loshishino.
(Jonga iindlela ezi-3 zoRhwebo.) Ngokukhawuleza ndafumanisa ukuba ishishini lalingaphezulu kakhulu. Ukulinganisa, ukuthenga akuyi kuqonda.
4. Uthando lwenza ube nethemba elithembekileyo.
Ukuqalisa ishishini lakho akukho ukuzinikela okuncinci. Ukwenza oko kufuneka kwenziwe ukwenzela ukuba iqela lakho elitsha liqalise kwaye liphuhlise libe yishishini elincinci elikhulayo kuthatha iminyaka kwiimeko ezininzi. Amancinane amashishini amancinci yimpumelelo yemali kunyaka wabo wokuqala. Abanye, njengokuba uyazi, akakho.
Ingozi yokuthandana nombono othile okanye uhlobo loshishino kukuba lusenza sibe nethemba elingakumbi malunga nekhono loshishino. Sivame ukunciphisa ithemba lethu. Unokuqala nawuphi na uhlobo lweshishini naphi na. Kodwa ngaba iya kuphumelela? Kwaye (umbuzo obaluleke kakhulu) kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukuba ishishini libuyisele inzuzo?
Awukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo phambi kokuba iqela lakho elincinci liqalise, kodwa unokuhlakulela ukuqikelela ngokusebenza ngeendleko zakho zokuqalisa nokusebenza kunye nokwenza ukuhamba kwemali. (Jonga iSicwangciso seMali seSicwangciso soShishino kunye neendlela ezi-3 zokuThengisa ukuThengisa iinkcukacha malunga nendlela yokwenza oku.)
Ndihlala ndikumangaliswa kukuba bangaphi abantu abanqwenela ukuba "baqhube amanani". Kufuneka ukwenze, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uya kufumana nayiphi na ingcamango engqinelanayo yempumelelo yezoshishino.
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Musa ukungahambi kakuhle - akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngentshiseko. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukukholelwa kwimveliso okanye umbono wakho kwenza kube nzima kakhulu ukubeka kuzo zonke iiyure ozidingayo ukuqala ishishini lakho kwaye likhule libe li shishini ukuba lizingca. Kodwa kufuneka uvuselele umnqweno wakho xa uzama ukunquma ukuba wenzeni phi kwaye njani. Xa kuziwa ekuqaleni ishishini lakho, inzondelelo yindawo yesakhiwo, kungekhona ukukhetha isigaba se shishini.
Ngoko ungakhethi ukuqala ishishini elincinci ngokusekelwe kwinto oyithandayo. Endaweni yoko, khetha into ehambelana neminqweno yakho eyenziwa ngabanye abantu - okanye ubuncinane njengento eyaneleyo yokuhlawula.
Khumbula, iCapeid imnandi kodwa akwazi nto ngoshishino!