Thetha Ukuphumelela Ingxoxo Isifundo 4: I-Motormouths Musa ukuthengisa
Abanye abantu, nangona kunjalo, banokwenene "i-motormouths" - abantu abahlala bethetha ngokukhawuleza. Ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kuncinci kakhulu, kodwa kukholwa okanye akunjalo, kukho abantu abavame ukuthetha ngokwemvelo ngesantya sezantya eshiya ikhefu phakathi kwamagama kwaye ikhupha izilwanyana ezingaphezulu.
Ukuthetha ngePavity Appropriate
Iqhinga lokuthetha ngesantya esifanelekileyo kukukhumbula ukuba kufuneka ukhulume ngesantya evumela ukuba umphulaphuli wakho aqonde into oyithethayo. Ukuphulaphula akusiyo inkqubo enye-nyathelo; kufuneka sive okokutshoyo kwaye siluguqulele ulwimi ngentsingiselo.
Ukuba sithetha ngokukhawuleza, le nyathelo elibalulekileyo lesibini le nkqubo lilahlekile. Njengombonakalo, izinga langokwemvelo othetha ngalo liyinxalenye yesignesha yakho yesigama. Ingxaki ngokuthetha ngesantya esheshayo okanye esicothayo kukuba iphazamise ukunxibelelana.
Xa uthetha ngokukhawuleza, uqobo "uphuma" umphulaphuli wakho.
Akakwazi ukugcina ngengqondo kunye nawe kwaye uya kuphelisa ukuzama. Ngelixa inxalenye encinane yomyalezo wakho ingafihla, ininzi ayiyi kuyenza. Xa uthetha ngokukhawuleza, umphulaphuli wakho unokufumana ixesha elide lokucwangcisa, kwaye ingqondo ingavakalisa indlela othetha ngayo ngokukhawuleza okanye uhlasele izinto ezithandekayo.
Ukuba uva amagama anjengokuthi "Ngaba unokuphinda uphinda?" Kaninzi, okanye uhlala udibana nobukeka obukhenkcelayo, mhlawumbi ungumntu odla ngokukhawuleza okanye uthetha ngokukhawuleza.
Ukunciphisa Intetho Yakho
Ukugxininisa ekukhulumeni kwethu xa sithetha enye indlela enhle yokunciphisa intetho yethu. Xa sigxininisa ekuchazeni ngokucacileyo, (njengoko wenzayo kwiNtetho yeSifundo 1 ), siyaziphoqa ukuba siyeke ukukrazula kunye nokukhawuleza iilayibhile xa sithetha.
Enye indlela yokunciphisa intetho yethu kukugxila kwingcaciso. Inkulumo yomlomo, njengentetho ebhaliweyo, yenziwe ngamagama kunye nezivakalisi. Enyanisweni, iimpawu zokubhaliweyo zentetho ebhaliweyo yindlela esetyikityo yezithuba zokusixelela ukuba ulwazi olubhaliweyo kufuneka lufakwe njani. Ngokomzekelo, xa ndabhala:
"Ukuba uva amagama anjengokuthi" Ngaba unokuphindaphinda oko? "Kaninzi, okanye udla ngokukhawuleza ukhangeleka, mhlawumbi ungumntu othetha ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza," iziphumlisi zichaza ukuba xa ufunda okanye uthi lesi sigwebo, uya kumisa emfutshane emva kombuzo wembuzo, phindaphinda kwakhona emva kwegama elithi 'rhoqo' ngenxa ye-comma, kwaye emva koko 'ubukeka'. Isivakalisi sifanele sifunde ngendlela efanayo, nokuba uyifunda ngokulileyo okanye uyifunde ngokuvakalayo.
Kodwa abantu abathetha ngokukhawuleza banokuthi bawunaki ukutshitshiswa ngokupheleleyo.
Abayekanga okwesikhashana kwiimpawu, ama-hyphens, amanqaku embuzo okanye amaxesha, adibanisa onke amabinzana ndawonye. Ngako oko, ukugxila kwingqungquthela kunokuncedisa ukuphucotha izithethi ezikhawulezayo.
Ukuzivocavoca Intetho: Ukusebenzisa ukukhutshiswa
Buyela ekuqalekeni kwesi sifundo sesincoko uze ufunde ngokuvakalayo, usebenzisa iziphumlisi ukukhokela ukuphawula kwakho. Cinga ngexesha okanye i-semicolon njengekhefu ngokuphindwe kabini nje nge-comma.
Izinzuzo zokuphucula intetho yakho
Xa uthetha ngesantya esifanelekileyo, abaphulaphuli bakho baya:
- Yiba nesithakazelo kwizinto othethayo kunye nokunyamekela;
- Yiba lula ukuqonda umyalezo othetha ngawo.
Isifundo 4 Umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya
Beka eceleni ubuncinci imizuzu engama-15 ngosuku ngeliveki ukuze usebenze ngezwi lakho.
Emva kokuba usebenze ngokuzilolonga kwaye uxhumeke kweli phepha, ndifuna ukuba uqhubeke nomsebenzi wakho wokufunda ngomlomo ngeveki.
I fiction okanye engeyiyo inkolelo iza kusebenza, nje kuphela ukuba isiqwenga sigqitywe kakuhle. Njengoko ufunda ngokuvakalayo, gxininisa ekuvakaliseni kwakho kwaye ulandele ukucaphulwa njengoko kulawulwa iziphumlisi. Abo benu banandipha inselele baya kuxhamla ngokungena kwezinye iincwadi zakudala, ezifana neengxelo ze-Austen, i-Hardy, uDickens kunye neThackeray. Isakhiwo sesigwebo siya kunika ukuqhutyelwa komsebenzi omkhulu.
Isinyathelo esilandelayo sinzima kunene, kodwa ndifuna ukuba uqale ukusebenza kuso kanye, kwakhona. Qala ukujonga iziphumlisi ngaphambi kokuba uthethe. Enoba ungowomnxeba okanye uthetha nomntu ngomntu, ngaphambi kokuba uthethe oko uza kuthetha, "bona" izivakalisi, uzalise ixesha kunye neenkomfa, uze uthethe. Ukuba unako ukuqonda oku, isantya othethayo siya kuthoba kakhulu - nokuba unxibekile.
Kwaye kwakhona, xelela inkulumo yakho qapha ukuba yiliphi ikhono lokuthetha osebenza ngalo kweli veki, kwaye menze ukuba akuxwayise xa uthetha ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokukhawuleza.
Esi sifundo esilandelayo sokuthetha, uya kukhangela i-buzzwords kunye ne-slang kunye nendlela yokutshabalalisa unxibelelwano. Qhubela ukuthetha ngeSifundo seSempumelelo 5