Indlela Yokuphelisa Ukwesaba Ukungaphumeleli Xa Uqalisa Ukushishina
Xa ndibuza abantu lo mbuzo, bahlala besabela ukuba bayesaba ukungaphumeleli - kungekhona kumagama amaninzi, kodwa yiyo into ehlaselwa kuyo.
Bathi izinto ezifana "Ndiyesaba ukuqala ishishini lam. Andizi ukuba abantu abaneleyo baya kuba nomdla ekuthengeni le mveliso. "Okanye" Ndingathanda ukuqala ishishini kodwa andinakuyithengisa kakhulu. "Okanye" Ndingathanda ukuqala ishishini elincinci kodwa andiyazi ukuba ndiyakwenza imali eyaneleyo yokuphila . "
Uyabona? Isithintelo sokuqala ishishini elincinci akukona ngokuphathelele kwimveliso okanye ukuthengisa okanye imali-ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli.
Ngoku uloyiko olusindisayo kwingozi engokwenyama, njengokwesaba ovakalelwayo xa ubona inja enkulu yokugqilazela emi endleleni yakho okanye ukwesaba okuthintela ininzi lethu ekudubukeni kweNigiya Falls kwi-barrel, yinto enempilo. Kodwa uhlobo loloyiko olukuthintela ukwenza izinto ofuna ukuzenza eziya kukucebisa.
Ukuba ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli kukuthintela ukuba uqalise ishishini elincinci, kufuneka ujikeleze kwaye uqhubeke phambili.
Indlela Yokuphelisa Ukwesaba Ukungaphumeleli
Ungaphula njani ukukhubazeka kwakho kwaye ungadluli ukwesaba ukuhluleka? Kufuneka wenze izinto ezimbini:
- Lungiselela ukuphumelela
- Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ukuhluleka
1) Lungiselela Ukuphumelela
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze ukulungiselela ukuphumelela kukuba ufunde indlela yokwenza ngayo. Uyazi ukuba ungaphumeleli njani. Ungaphumeleli ngokungenzi nto okanye ungaphumeleli ngokwenza izinto eziyinyabi.
Kodwa uyaphumelela njani? Ngokukufumanisa oko kuya kufuneka ukuba uphumelele kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ezo zidingo zidibene. Ukuzibandakanya ngolwazi yindlela yokuphumelela. (Yabona Kutheni Amashishini Amancinci Ahluleka? )
Ngokomzekelo, cinga ukuba ufuna ukuqala ishishini elincinci ukuthengisa isepha kunye nemveliso yokuhlamba.
Ukuze le shishini liphumelele, kufuneka ube nezona zinto ezine:
- Abantu abaneleyo abafuna ukuthenga isepha kunye nemveliso yokuhlambela
- Umkhiqizo onobukhulu kunye nexabiso likhuphisana ngokwaneleyo ukuba abantu bafuna ukuyithenga
- Indlela yokuzisa ezi zibini (abantu kunye nemveliso) kunye
- Into eyenzayo yokuthenga imveliso okanye imveliso yakho iyanyanzelisa
Indlela efanelekileyo yokujonga indlela yokuhlangabezana nale mfuno kukusebenzisa iSicwangciso soShishino .
Ukudala isicwangciso soshishino kuza kuzalisa izikhelo kolwazi lwakho kwaye unikezele iinkcukacha zendlela oya kwenza ngayo oko kufuneka kwenziwe ukuba uqalise kwaye usebenze ibhizinisi elincinci ngempumelelo. Isicwangciso sakho se shishini siya kuba, ngokwenene, isicwangciso sakho sempumelelo.
2) Shintsha isimo sengqondo sakho malunga nokungaphumeleli
Kutheni ucinga ukwesaba ukuqala ishishini lakho?
Uninzi lwabantu luyesaba ukuhluleka ngenxa yokuba bacinga:
- Ukungaphumeleli kukwenza ube ngumntu ombi, "olahlekileyo" abanye abajonge phantsi.
- Unokulahlekelwa yonke into okanye ininzi yemali yakho kunye / okanye izinto zakho.
Zombini ezi ngcamango ziyiyo ngcamango.
Ukungaphumeleli akutshintshi iigeni zakho okanye ubuntu bakho. Ngoko ungenza njani ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba ngumntu ombi ukuba uyaphula kwinto ethile? Ukungaphumeleli kuthinta iintshukumo zabanye abantu, kodwa akusibi.
Ngaba uya kuba "ulahlekile" ukuba uyaphula? Ukuba uvumelekile ukuba ube. "Akunjalo; uhlala phantsi "okwenza ulahleke.
Ngaba abanye baya kubheka phantsi? Abanye abantu banako. Awukwazi ukulawula iingcinga okanye izenzo zabanye abantu-ngoko kutheni ulahlekelwe ukulala phezu kwazo?
Ukungaphumeleli Ngaba Ubomi Bungozi
Ngokuphathelele ukulahlekelwa yonke imali yakho kunye / okanye izinto ukuba ibhizinisi lakho elitsha lihlulekayo, akunakwenzeka. Unokwenza ibhizinisi lakho ngendlela enokuthi unciphise uxanduva lwakho ngokubandakanya okanye ngokubambisana . Ngaba Unokubandakanya Ibhizinisi Lakho? unikeza izibonelelo kunye nokungahambi kakuhle kokubandakanya, ukuba ungathanda ukwazi ngokumalunga nale fom yobunini boshishino .
Kwaye nangona ubeka ishishini lakho njenge- proprietorship yedwa kunye nokugqiba ukufakela ukucinywa komntu , enye yepropati yakho iya kukhululwa.
Ngoko awuyi kulahlekelwa yonke imali yakho okanye izinto, nangona ishishini lakho lihamba ngesisu. Kubaluleke kangakanani isixa onokusilahleka? Le ngongoma yembono. Imali ayibalulekanga njengempilo yakho, umzekelo, okanye impilo kunye nentlalo yabathandekayo bakho.
Inqaku lam liwukuthi ukuhluleka kungonwabi kwaye kungathandeki, kodwa kungasongela ubomi. Kwaye ukuhluleka kuhlala kukufumana ithuba lohlobo oluthile okanye elinye-ithuba lokuswela ngaphaya kwemida yethu eqhelekileyo, ukufunda into ebalulekileyo, okanye ukwenza ukudibanisa kwangaphambili. Ukukhumbula lo mbono obuhle wokungaphumeleli kunye nokugxila kuyo kuya kuhamba ixesha elide ekutshintsheni isimo sengqondo malunga nalo.
Ukuqala nokuqhuba ibhishini lakho elincinci lingaba linye lamava amaninzi ebomini bakho. Ungavumeli uloyiko lwakho lokungaphumeleli lwenze ulahlekelwe.
Awuyi kukwazi ukukhangela ukwesaba kwakho. Kodwa ekugqibeleni, xa usakha kwiimpumelelo ezaneleyo, uya kukwazi ukuluhlula. Kutheni ungaqali ngoku?