Igama elithi 'hayi' lingafanele litshatyalaliswe.
Enyanisweni, kunokukunika amandla ukuphumeza inqanaba elitsha lobungangamsha ongazange uliphuphe. Unokucinga ukuba eli licebo nje lokuthengisa, kodwa ngokwenene liyifilosofi yobomi.
Enoba sichaza thina njengabathengisi okanye hayi, sonke sihlanganyela kwinkqubo yokuthengisa . Sonke kufuneka sinqobe ukwesaba kokungaphumeleli kunye nokuchaswa ukuba siphumelele kwaye sifinyelele oko sifuna. Nazi ezinye zeemfihlo ezintlanu zokukunceda ukujika ukungaphumeleli kwimpumelelo ngokukhawuleza!
Shintsha Umzekelo Wakho Wengqondo "Impumelelo" ne "Ukungaphumeleli"
Uninzi lwabantu lusebenza ngolu hlobo lwengqondo:
- UKUSEBENZA ⇔ U ⇔ UKUSEBENZA
Bazibona bephakathi, baphumelele ekupheleni kwesinye kunye nokuhluleka kwenye. Benza konke abakwaziyo ukufudukela kwimpumelelo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Kodwa, kuthekani ukuba ubuyisela kwakhona loo mzekelo?
- NOKUQALA ⇒ UKUFUNEKA
Esikhundleni sokubheka ukuhluleka njengento emele igwenywe, yijika ibe "ilitye lokunyuka" endleleni eya empumelelweni kunye nokwanelisa.
Ngamanye amazwi: Impumelelo yindawo ekuyo kuyo. Ukungaphumeleli indlela ofika ngayo.
Ukufezekisa impumelelo enkulu kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ukungaphumeleli akunjalo nje. Yimfuneko. Simele sibone impumelelo kunye nokungaphumeleli kwinto abayiyo ngokwenene. Akunakuphikisa kodwa kumacala athile achasene nemali enye.
Ukwenyusa ngokweNqanaba iNqanaba lakho lokusilela
Ukuba kuyinyaniso ukuba xa siphumelela ngakumbi, siphumelela ngakumbi (kwaye kunjalo), ngoko ke umgomo wakho wokugqibela kufuneka ube ukwandisa ngenjongo yokunyusa izinga lakho lokungaphumeleli! Ngaloo ngcamango engqondweni, uphumelela nangona ungaphumeleli. Ewe, oku ku-intuitive, inveritive thinking philosophy, kodwa ukholwe okanye akusebenzi!
Ukungaphumeleli ngokunyanisekileyo yisiseko segama elithi "Hamba ngokuba Hayi". "Hamba u-Hayi" kuthetha ukuba abantu banokuthi "hayi," ukusondela kwakho kuya kufumana impumelelo.
Ngamanye amagama, abantu abaninzi bakuxelela "akukho" ngoku, abantu abaninzi baya kuthi "ewe" kwixesha elide. Ukuba ngaba ngokwenene babala inani lexesha abava "akukho" ngexesha lomdlalo okanye ngeveki, abaninzi abantu bayothuka xa bebona ukuba inani liphantsi kangakanani. Hamba phambili kwaye uzame!
Setha "Hayi" Iinjongo
Wonke umntu ubeka iinjongo zokuphumelela . Kodwa njani malunga nokubeka iinjongo zeenani lezihlandlo siphumelele? Ngokomzekelo, kunokuba umthengisi ubeke injongo yokuba nethemba lokuba "ewe" kubo, babeka injongo yokugatywa (ukuva "akukho") amaxesha angama-10. Khawucinge nje ngamabini aqala awayebizayo athi, "Ewe!" Kunokuba kwenziwe (ekubethe iinjongo zabo "yebo"), baya kuba bengasemva ngenxa yokuba banama-10 "akukho" ukuba bahambe!
Enye into ebangelisayo yolu cwangciso yindlela egcina ngayo abantu "kumdlalo" xa "batsha." Ukuba zonke unayo iinjongo zeewe uze uhlawule (okanye uyeke) xa uphumelele, i-streak eshushu iyaphela. Kodwa ukuba uyaqhubeka xa iebo zobomi ziwela ezinyaweni zakho, isibhakabhaka sinomda!
Ukubhiyozela Ukusilela kwakho, kungekhona nje ukuphumelela kwakho.
Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba sibe nemihlali ngeempumelelo zethu. Ewe, ufuna ukubhiyozela. Ewe, ufuna ukuzinikela umvuzo okanye udibanise iphathi. Kodwa, ukuba isitshixo sempumelelo singako ukwandisa ukwehluleka kwethu, ngoko kuyinto engqiqweni ukubhiyozela i-back backs.
Ewe, wakuva ngokuchanekileyo: ukuba umntu uguqula, endaweni yokuzigweba ngokwengqondo ngenxa yokungaphumeleli, zizuze ngokwenza umzamo ngokuthenga i-ice cream cone okanye ikhefu ekhethekileyo uze uthi, "Ndiyodwa inyathelo elisondeleyo kwimpumelelo!" Yeka ukuvumela ukungaphumeleli kubambelele kwiingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho.
Khangela isibindi njengesiqhelo "
Ukuba ukungaphumeleli kuyisithuthi esinokubangela ukuba uphumelele, ngoko isibindi ngumbane! I sibindi sisisipha. Kwaye, njengaluphi na umsila, kufuneka uyihlakulele kwaye uyomeleze ngokuzivocavoca.
Njengoko ilizwi lisithi: Yisebenzise, okanye lilahleke. Akunjalo neenkalipho. Sebenzisa kwaye uhlakulele "isibindi sesibindi" ngokukhangela ukwesaba kwiso kwaye uthathe inyathelo. Njalo xa uthatha inyathelo, isibindi sesibindi siyaqina kwaye ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokuzithemba kwakho kuya kuncipha.
Xa ungenayo, i-atrophies. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba wazi ukuba isibindi sakho siphelile. Kodwa akumele kube njalo. Yonke isibindi onokuyifuna okanye kufuneka ufezekise zonke iinjongo onayo kakade kuwe, elindele ukuba uthathe isenzo.
Yithi Cha
Ngoko, utshintshe imodeli yakho yengqondo, ukwandise ngenjongo yokwenyuka kwezinga lakho lokungaphumeleli, ubeke iinjongo "akukho", ubhiyozele ukungaphumeleli kwakho ubone isibindi njengesihlunu, kwaye uya kwandisa izinga lokuphumelela kwiinyanga ezintandathu eziqinisekisiwe. Khumbula, esi sicwangciso asikho nje icebo lokuthengisa. Akukhona nje kumashishini. Kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho bobuqu kunye nobungcali.