Nanku umbuzo abathengisi abaxabana nabo-ngaba izikhalazo into enhle into engalunganga? Izikhalazo ezilula ziyingozi kwaye zinamandla. Ziyiwindow kumthengi wakho, kukuvumela ukuba ubone okubonayo.
Ngoku, unokuthi ube yinxalenye yekampu ekholelwa ukuba umthengisi akufanele ave naziphi na izikhalazo Emva koko konke, akunjalo ukusilela kwezikhalazo njengokuba kuchazwa ngumthengi onoyolo? Eyokuqala, kufuneka ugxininise kumava kumakhasimende kwaye kungabi ngeenkonzo zabathengi.
Ukufumana umthengi kuhamba ngaphezu kweenkonzo zabathengi. Isebenza kakuhle, ingeyona intsingiselo yentsingiselo-nkonzo ijolise kwinto oyenzayo xa ufumana isikhalazo. Amava agxile kwizinto ozenzayo ukugcina izikhalazo kwindawo yokuqala. Nangona ndivuma ukuba akukho zikhalazo ezinokuba yinto entle, nantsi enye into endiyifunayo kwiminyaka.
Okokuqala, ndidibene nabathengisi abaninzi abanobunzima. I shishini labo lihlehlisiwe kwaye babengenakuqonda isizathu. Emva koko, akuzange kubekho izikhalazo zabathengi abaza kundixelela. Xa ndenza uphando nophando lwam, ndafumanisa ukuba isizathu sokuba akukho zikhalazo kukuba abathengi babecinga ukuba yinkcitho yexesha. Abazange bakholwe ukuba isitoreli sasikhathalele nokuba ngaba sikhalazo. Kwakhona, ukuba ugxininise kumava kumakhasimende ngokubhekiselele kwinkonzo yabathengi ucinga kunye nokukhangela impendulo yabathengi ngexesha lonke-kungekhona nje ukuhlala eofisini lakho kwaye ulinde into ehamba kakubi okanye ulinde ikhadi lomntu wamakhasimende ukuba lizaliswe.
Okwesibini, abathengisi abagqwesileyo abalindele izikhalazo; bafikelela phambili. Yingakho ndandenza umkhuba wokubiza ubuncinci abathengi aba-10 ngeveki ukuba bahlole amava abo kwiivenkile zam. Zizo zonke iifowuni ezingenangqungquthela, kodwa zonke zandikhonza kakuhle. Ndiqinisekisile ukuba umntu uyazi ukuba ndimnini kwaye wayefuna ingxelo enyanisekileyo.
QAPHELA: Ndandisoloko ndiqiniseke ukuba ndiyabonga kwaye ndibavuza abasebenzi xa ifowuni ibangele amava amava esitolo. Khumbula, into evuzwayo iphinda iphindwe.
Gcinani engqondweni, ukuba abanye abantu abakhalazo ngenxa yokukhalaza. Abakwazi ukufumana into entle. Ngokuqhelekileyo uvava bethetha izinto ezinje, "Akukubi na oko ... Akunjalo okubi ... Akunjalo yini into embi?" Labo ngabantu abanokuzithoba kwaye bazama ukuzibonakalisa babalulekile ukubeka abanye phantsi. Gwema aba bantu. Abazenzi izikhalazo ezibuhlungu.
Nangona kunjalo, njengoko uGeorge RR Martin wathi, "Ubulumko buvela emlonyeni weintsana." Abathengi abalungileyo abakhalazayo (ngokungafani nalabo bachazwe kumhlathi apha ngasentla) bazisa into ethile kwi-shishini lakho elingenakulungela.
Makhe ndikunike umzekelo wesikhalazo endikuphetheyo esaphathwa kakuhle. Ndaphuma nidla kunye nomfazi wam ngoMgqibelo ebusuku. Wayelela intlanzi, kwaye xa yaphuma, yayingapheki yonke indlela. Asisayi kubuyisa ukutya, kodwa oku kwakungalunganga. Sadibanisa umncedisi kwaye simema.
Kamva, umphathi weza etafileni ukuza kuhlola kwaye asicele ngeengxaki. Wanyamekela ngokwenene. Wachaza ukuba oku kudla ngokungafanekiyo kwaye ifihla indleko yesidlo sethu.
Sasishiyile ivenkile siziva kakuhle-siya kubuya. Umphathi waqaphela ukuba kukho ingxaki, kwaye wayibhekisela kuyo, into ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ukuguqula ietafile: Ndiyathetha inxaxheba kulo lonke elaseUnited States. Kwesinye seziboniso zam, ndinezine iislayidi ngeeposiso zesipelo. Omnye wabhala kum, ebonisa iimpazamo. Baye baphonononga iimpazamo zeziphumlisi, ezagqitywa ukuba zingalunganga kumxholo, kodwa zilungile ngokuphathelele iimpazamo ezine zokupeliswa.
Ndandibulela ukuba bathabatha ixesha lokuba ndithumelele i-imeyile. Ndandifundise ukuba kufuneka ndibe nomntu ozinikezele ekuhlazileni iimboniselo zam. Ngenxa yeso sikhalazo, ngoku ndineenkcazo ezichanekileyo. Ngenxa yesi sikhalazo, ngoku ndinabantu ababini abahlukeneyo bahlaziya yonke ipakethe endiyakhayo ukujonga ukuchaneka kunye nomgangatho.
Nazi iindlela ezi-6 ezithathayo xa ufumana isikhalazo:
- Ndiyabonga Umthengi Wakho. Unoyolo okanye ukhalazo, yiloo nto-ngabaxhasi bakho. Ukuba bebuhlungu gqitha ukuba abayi kubuya, abayi kukuchitha umoya wabo ukuxelela ngempazamo. Ukuba zikhalaza, zizama ukunceda. Into eyona nto ungayenzayo iyabambana nabo. Bakuhle ngokwaneleyo ukukhomba okuthile kuwe, kwaye kunokukufundisa isifundo esibalulekileyo.
- Mamela . Makuxelele ngokuchanekileyo oko kwenzekayo. Buza imibuzo. Xa umntu ekhononda, ndijonge njengebholethi egcwele amandla, esele ikulungele ukuphuma. Ukuvumela nokubakhuthaza ukuba bachaze ukuvumela umoya omncinane ngaphandle kwebhalo.
- Babuye Baphinda INgxaki Iqela Elihlandlo Lamaxesha . Oku kuvumela ukuba bathethe ibali labo, baze bavumele enye umoya ngaphandle kwebhaluni.
- Babuze Imibuzo Ngeziphumo Zabo. " Yintoni esinokuyenza ukukulungisa?" "Sisiphi isisombululo okanye isitshintsho esifanele senze ukuze sigweme ukwenza le mpazamo kwikamva? Emva kwakho konke, ukungahoywa isikhalazo esifanelekileyo yile shishini elibi.
- Sombulula imeko. Buza, "Yintoni esinokuyenza ukulungisa imeko nawe?" Ukuba bacela okungaphezulu kunokuba unako ukubonelela, phendula, "Ndiyathanda ukuba sinako." Emva koko, bulela kwakhona isikhalazo.
- Ukulandelisa. Thumela umthengi inqaku okanye ubize emva kweveki okanye ezimbini ukulandela. Ndiyabonga kwakhona ngokuzisa ingxaki yakho, kwaye ubaxelele ngamanyathelo owathatheyo ukulungisa. Bamema. Ukulandela kunye nomthengi kunokuhamba ngendlela ende.
Umgca wezantsi, siza kufumana izikhalazo-eziyingxenye yehlabathi lezoshishino. Yazisa abo ufumana kubathengi. Bakukunika ithuba lokuva nokudibanisa kwizinto ezibaphazamisayo. Khumbula ukubonga (endaweni yokuzikhusela), samkele isikhalazo, kwaye usebenze kuso.
Emva kweminyaka engama-31 ekuthengiseni, ndiyathetha ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ndiyathanda ukuba abantu bandixelele oko bakucinga. Abantu baninzi bazama ukuba "bahloniphe" kwaye bangabelani nento abayicinga ngayo. "Akuyena mcimbi omkhulu" umthengi uya kuthi. Emva koko uhlale uxolo ngokubhekiselele ekusebenzeni. Ubungcono kangakanani umthengisi ukuba ndiza kuba ndandivayo kumntu wonke? Ubungcono kangakanani umthengisi uya kuba? Kwaye ngaba abathembekileyo bakho abathengi ukuba ngaba bayazi ukuba unenyameko malunga namava abo?