Ukushayela igqwetha lakho akuthethi ukuba unako ukuphuma kumhlawula. Umele uhlawule ummeli wakho kwiinkonzo ezinikezelwe ukuya kumhla wokudubula, nangona uphikisana nezo nkonzo okanye uziva ukuba iinkonzo azifanelekanga ngandlela-thile.
Ngaphambi kokuba utshaye ummeli wakho
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe inyathelo lokushayela igqwetha lakho, cinga ukuba kutheni ukuthatha le nyathelo. Ukuqhawula ubudlelwane nomcebisi wezebhizinisi othembekileyo unokuba nemiphumo emibi kuwe nakwi shishini lakho. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ungaphakathi kumangalo , nokuba ngummangalelwa okanye ummangali, kufuneka ufumane ummeli omtsha kwaye oku kunokudlula ixesha kunye nemali kwaye ubuyekeze inkqubela kwimeko yakho.
Cinga ukuphendula le mibuzo phambi kokuba uthathe inyathelo lokushayela igqwetha lakho:
- Yintoni endiyichukumisayo? Ndiyinto ephumayo kwimeko, okanye ingxaki ngalo mmeli? Ingxaki enokuthi ityala ikwazi ukusombulula ngokulula ngoqhagamshelwano olungcono, ngelixa ingxaki kummeli, ngokubanzi, inokuba yintlukwano yobuntu engenako isombululo.
- Ngaba igqwetha liyenza yonke into ngexesha elifanelekileyo? Ngaba igqwetha lam liphendula imibuzo kunye nexhalaba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokupheleleyo? Okanye akayi kubuya kum ngokukhawuleza xa ndifumana umbuzo?
- Ngaba ukutshaya igosa lam liba nemiphumo emibi enkundleni eqhubekayo? Ndingcono ukulinda de emva kokuba ityala liphelile?
Ezinye izizathu zokutshisa igqwetha
- Ukuba igqwetha alisebenzisi ngendlela efanelekileyo okanye efanelekileyo. Ukuba igqwetha lakho likucela ukuba wenze izinto okanye kukuxelela ukuba uza kwenza izinto ozivelayo ukuba azikho imigaqo, awufanele usebenze nalo mntu.
- Ukuba igqwetha aliphendulelanga iimfuno zakho, ngokungaphenduli kwiinkxalabo, ukuphendula imibuzo ngokukhawuleza nangokupheleleyo, okanye ukungahoywa iifowuni okanye ii-imeyile
- Ukuba ummeli akabonakali ukuqonda imeko yakho
- Ukuba ummeli wenza izithembiso kwaye akayizalisekisi. Igqwetha elithembisa ukuba ityala liya kuphumelela lithembekile. Akukho mntu okwaziyo umphumo wecala kunye nabagqwetha abafanelekileyo abazithembisi ukuphumelela.
Ngaphambi kokuba usitshise igqwetha lakho ...
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinyathelo sokugqibela sokushayela igqwetha lakho, yenza izinto ezimbini:
- Cacisa ukuba kutheni unganelisekanga kummeli kwaye ubeke izilindelo zakho kulwalamano. Thetha malunga nendlela onokubambisana ngayo ukuba unxibelelwano olungcono.
- Unokucinga kwakhona ukuthetha nomnye ugqwetha malunga nokukhathazeka kwakho ngokubanzi, ngakumbi ukuba zibandakanya imeko ethile. Nangona igqwetha alikwazi ukuphawula malunga neenkcukacha zecaleni, kwaye akufanele udibanise iinkcukacha, unokubuza malunga nohlobo lwentyala kunye nendlela ezi zihlandlo zihlala ngayo. Omnye ugqwetha unokukunika kakuhle ukuba kutheni iimeko ezingekho kakuhle okanye ukuba kutheni kunzima ukuphumelela kulona hlobo.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ugqwetha lakho lenzile ukuphulwa komthetho , qha ga mshelana nolwazi lwenu yoluntu.
Inkqubo yokudubula:
Ukuba unqwenele ukugqiba ummeli wakho, nakhu amanyathelo okumele uwathathe:
- Okokuqala, kufuneka uqeshe ummeli omtsha, ngakumbi ukuba ungaphakathi kwimeko yamatyala. Cela ummeli wakho omtsha ukuba afumane iifayili kummeli odlulileyo kunye nokusingatha isaziso seNkundla kwiimeko eziqhubekayo zenkundla. Vumela ummeli omtsha ukuba azi intsapho yakho ekuqhubeni.
- Khangela iirekhodi zezoshishino zakho ukuze ubone ukuba unjani isivumelwano onalo kunye negqwetha lakho: ukugcinwa, ukulandelana, okanye umrhumo . Ukuba unesivumelwano esibhaliweyo okanye isivumelwano sokugcina kunye nommeli wakho, hlaziya isivumelwano ukuba ubone oko kuthetha ngokuphelisa ubuhlobo. Landela isivumelwano malunga nexesha kunye neesaziso.
- Thumela incwadi eqinisekisiweyo okanye ebhalisweyo (ngoko unayo irekhodi lokufumana) elichaza injongo yakho yokuphelisa ulwalamano olusebenzayo ngokukhawuleza emva kokufumana ileta kwaye uyala ummeli wakho ukuba ayeke ukusebenza kwiinkalo. Awudingi ukunika ingcaciso; akuyimfuneko. Cela zonke iifayile zakho okanye uxelele igqwetha lokuba iofisi yakho entsha yommeli iya kucela ezo fayile kwaye zicele ukusebenzisana.
- Kwileta, cela ukubuyiselwa kwemirhumo ehlawulwa yomsebenzi okwenziwanga. Buza ibhajethi echaziweyo eneenkcukacha ezihlawulwayo zonke izinto ezilindelekileyo kunye nayiphi na indleko. Ukuba ummeli wangaphambili wayesebenza kwimeko enomdla, ummeli wakho omtsha uya kukunyamekela ukulungiswa kunye negqwetha langaphambili.
Ukudubula umntu akuzange kube mnandi okanye kulula, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko. Ukusingatha kwakho ukuhlukana ngendlela efana nezoshishino kuya kunceda wonke umntu ukuba ajongane nale meko ngokulula.