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by Rob Hard

Imicimbi Yenkampani Engenzi Ngenzuzo I-Faux Pas Awukwazi Uyazi

Wonke umntu uyazi umntu onokusebenzisa izifundo ezimbalwa kwi-etiquette yezoshishino. Nangona amaxesha athile amaxesha athile angasenza sihleke, ngokuqhelekileyo kunokuba kungabangela ukuba kuphazamiseke ngakumbi kwaye kuhlasele ngakumbi. Ekugqibeleni, ngamnye oqeqeshiweyo kufuneka abe ngaphezu kwethemba ukuba angayinqaku lala mabali. Indlela yodwa yokuqinisekisa ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ibe yindlela yethu yokuziphatha kakuhle kwixesha lonke. Iziganeko zoshishino zoshishino azikho.

I-etiquette yezoshishino akudingeki ibe nzima. Kodwa kukho iimpazamo ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo zokuziphatha eziziindwendwe apho iindwendwe zoshishino zentengiso kunye nemikhosi yazo inetyala. Musa kuba yintengiso yefesti. Nazi ezinye iiphoso zokuziphatha ezizi-8 zokuphepha xa zijongene neentlanganiso eziqhelekileyo zezoshishino kunye neziganeko ezinjengeemina, iindibano, ukutya kweemveliso kunye neentengiso ze-cocktail.

01 - Ukusilela ukuphendula kwi-RSVP

I-Bad Etiquette Inkcazo: Wena ungumphathi kwinkampani kwaye uyamkela isimemo esivela kumlawuli wesinye isebe, ekumema ukuba ube khona ekuvelweni kwemveliso ebalulekileyo. I-RSVP icela ukuba ubiza umntu othile ukuba aqinisekise ukuhamba kwakho.

Ubeka isimemo ecaleni kwideski yakho, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ifunyanwe ngumgca womsebenzi. Kwiiveki ezimbini kamva umninimememo oyimememayo kwaye ukhulisa isimemo somntu siqu, ucela ukuba udibanise noluntu kunye nabathengi abalulekileyo ekuqalisweni. Ngelo xesha, unika umdla, "yebo."

I-Etiquette Pro Icebo: Musa ukunyanzelisa abaququzeleli bemicimbi ukuba balandele kunye nawe. Phendula kwiintsuku ezintlanu zokufumana nayiphi na isimemo okanye ngomhla we-RVSP.

02 - Ukuhluleka Ukulandela I-Code Code

I-Etiquette embi: Isimemo esishicilelweyo esishiye iiveki ezili-10 edlulileyo kwideskiti yakho yenziwe njengesiqwenga sephepha kwintetho ethile engahleliyo ukususela ngoko. Ukuveliswa kwemveliso kuyimina yokutya kwasekuseni kwihotele yendawo.

Ngenxa yokuba usebenza kwinkampani yesofthiwe apho ikhowudi yokugqoka isoloko ishiywe yintengiso, unxibe i-khakis kunye nekhati elide lemikhono. Ukwaziswa kwitafile yokubhalisa ngumntu osebenza naye kwinkampani, uze ungene kwigumbi lokuhlangana uze ufumane wonke umntu egqoke iingubo zoshishino.

I-Etiquette Pro Tip: Funda isimemo ngaphambi komcimbi kwaye uqaphele ikhowudi yokugqoka. Xa ungathandabuzeki, ukugqithisa.

03 - Ukungaphumeleli kwixesha

I-Bad Etiquette Isimo: I-ajenda yokumema yokuveliswa kwemveliso oya kuyo ibonisa ukufika ngo-8: 30 ekuseni kunye namazwi okuvula ngo-9: 00 ekuseni Kukho i-breakfast buffet yezivakashi ngeli xesha. Ujonge umlindo wakho kwaye u-8:50 am, kodwa uzive uqinisekile ukuba uye wafika ngexesha.

Ngokukhawuleza, awuzange uqaphele ii-imeyile ezimbini zangaphakathi ezithunyelweyo, ufingqa i-ajenda kwaye ucela ukuba ufike phakathi kwe-8: 00 no-8: 15. .

I-Etiquette Pro Tip: Abaphathi bamashishini kunye nabasebenzi bahlala bekulindeleke ukuba babe ngabokuqala ukufika kwisiganeko. Yazi xa ulindeleke ukuba ube khona.

04 - Ukungaphumeleli Ukwandisa isandla

I-Bad Etiquette Isimo: Ngeemzuzu ezili-10 kwicala lakho phambi kokuba uqalise ukuqala, uhlola iklasi ukukhawuleza uvume oogxa kwaye ukhangele ukuba uyazi naziphi na abathengi abathile (awukwazanga ukuphonononga uluhlu lwabathenjethi oluthunyelwe kuwe kwangaphambili).

Uhamba ngaphaya kweetyala ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezithwala ibhejiji kwaye zitsho omnye umphathi wenkampani, udibanise isandla sakhe. Emva koko, uthabathe isitya sokutya kunye nebhotile yamanzi. Zinezandla zombini zizele, ekugqibeleni ulungele ukuxelela umxhasi.

I-Etiquette Pro Icebo: Akukho mntu unomdla ekugubungeni isandla sakho semvula, esicacileyo. Shake izandla emva kokuba udliwe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye uhlanjwe. Kulo nqanaba, bulisa ngegama kwaye umxhasi wakho uya kuqonda.

Ukuba ukhona kwi-cocktail reception, ngakolunye uhlangothi, zama ukubamba isiselo sakho ngakwesokunxele sakho. Oku kushiya isandla sakho sokunene sikhululekile ukuxhaphaza ngaphandle kokubeka ingqele, ebomini ngesandla.

05 - Ukungaphumeleli ukwenza iNgcaciso

I-Bad Etiquette Isimo: Ufumana itafile ye-muffin yakho kunye namanzi, kwaye uhlale phantsi-imizuzu emithathu ngaphambi kokuba intlanganiso iqale.

Lucky kuwe, wonke umntu etafuleni uyazi, kodwa kuphela abantu abathathu kwaba-sibhozo bayazana. Xa ucinga ukuba awunayo ixesha elaneleyo, ujika uxoxe nabantu abathathu abaqhelekileyo kwaye ungaboni abanye.

I-Etiquette Pro Tip: Khumbulani ukuzisa wonke umntu kwiqela, kwaye wenze konke umzamo wokuzisa abantu abaphantsi abaphantsi kwisigaba esiphezulu kwiqela (ngaloo ndlela).

Kwakhona, khumbula ukuquka izihloko kunye namagama asemthethweni. ("Mnu John Smith, makhe ndikuxelele uDkt Jane Jones, umongameli wethu wophuhliso lwemveliso." UDkt. Jones, uMnumzana Smith ungumlawuli wobudlelwane bamakhasimende kwi-Acme Corporation. ")

06 - Ukuhluleka Ukugcina Izihloko Ezifanelekileyo

I-Bad Etiquette Isimo: Iyure yokuqala yendibano idlule, kwaye lixesha lokuphuka. Ekugqibeleni ukhumbula ukuzisa abanye abantu etafileni yakho.

Emva koko, ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wabantu abathile etafuleni wayekulwa nesifo esibi kakhulu ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule, kwaye unqume ukubuza malunga nesimo sempilo yakhe.

I-Etiquette Pro Tip: Izihloko eziliqela kufuneka ziphetshwe kwiimeko zeemeko zeqela, kwaye izihloko zempilo yazo ziphakathi kwazo. Ezinye izihloko ezifanele zikhutshwe zibandakanya imiba yezemali, izihloko ezidibeneyo, kunye nantoni na ekuhlaleni.

Ukushiya iingxoxo zomntu kwixesha elifanelekileyo kwaye uhlale ushiya ezo zihloko ezingafanelekanga kumashishini emnyango.

07 - Ukungaphumeleli Ukuzalisa iiNkundla eziHloniphekileyo

I-Bad Etiquette Inkcazo: Wonke umntu etafileni uya kuhamba ngexesha lokuphuka, kwaye ingxoxo iya kwiinkcazo ezingakumbi kwiingongoma ezithethayo zangaphambili. Umxhasi etafileni unomdla kakhulu kulokho okwenziwe yinkampani yakho ukuphuhlisa le mveliso emitsha.

Uye waya kwinkqubela yokuphuhliswa kwemveliso malunga nale, kwaye unqume ukwabelana ngeembono ezithile kunye netafile. Awuboni ngokukhawuleza oko, kodwa uDkt Jones wayesondele ukuphendula umbuzo. Uva ukuba uqale ukuthetha into ethile, kodwa uqhubeke.

I-Etiquette Pro Icebiso: Bonisa ukungafani kwabanye kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zentlalo kunye nezoshishino. UDkt Jones nguye ophetheyo etafuleni, kwaye lo ngumbuzo wakhe ukujongana ngaphandle kokuba ulandelele.

08 - Ukungaphumeleli Ukulandela iMinye iMigaqo yoTywala

Kulungile, umcimbi wokuveliswa kwemveliso usele kudlulileyo. Kuphela ekupheleni konyaka, kwaye oogxa bakho banquma ukukunikezela ngedola. Oogxa abane ozithandayo ekuphatheni benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuzonwabisa lonke isebe lakho malunga nokuphulwa kwetyala lokuziphatha konyaka. Ezinye zezihloko ezongezelelweyo ziquka:

Ukusela ngokweqile kwiimeko zenkampani
Imilinganiselo yetafile engafanelekanga
Ukungabikho kwe-chivalry
Ukungabikho kokubonga imiyalezo / ukuvuma

I-Etiquette Pro Tip: Musa ukuba lo mntu. I-etiquette yezoshishino inokubiza ezinye zeemfuno zayo kunye neemeko zayo, kodwa ngokubanzi, ukuziphatha kwakho okusemgangathweni kumcimbi wezoshishino akumele kube ngumfundi ongaphantsi komnye umsebenzi wezoshishino.