Iingcebiso Eziwusizo Zokuziphatha Ezintle Kwiintlanganiso Neziganeko Zentlalo
I-etiquette efanelekileyo yoshishino kulindeleke kuwo wonke umntu, ngokukodwa kwimicimbi yequmrhu . Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa abaqeqeshelwa ubugcisa bokuziphatha kakuhle. Oko kuthetha ukuba abantu abaninzi bafunda umgangatho wokuhlangana kunye nendlela yokuziqhuba ngayo kwimicimbi yezoshishino "emsebenzini."
Kakade ke, akubona wonke umntu ukhululekile ngokukwazi ukuba bahambisa i-label ye-business entries, abasebenzi kunye nezinye iindwendwe.
Gcinani engqondweni, injongo yobugcisa kukudala indawo evumela wonke umntu ukuba azive ekhululekile. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zezobugcisa zokusingqongileyo.
01 - Ufanele uphendule nini kwi-RSVP?
Izimemo zesiganeko ziya kunika uninzi lweenkcukacha ezibalulekileyo zesiganeko, kuquka iinkcukacha malunga nommkeli, uhlobo lwesiganeko, injongo (nangona i-ajenda emfutshane), indawo, ixesha, imiyalelo ethile, kunye ne-ye-RSVP.
Iziganeko namhlanje zithembele kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo ze-RSVP, kuquka i- imeyili , ifowuni, i-imeyile kumakhadi kunye nokunye. Kubalulekile ukuba iindwendwe ziphendule ngokukhawuleza xa zifumana isimemo, kwaye kungcono ukuphendula kwisithuba seveki. Ukuba kufuneka uhlawule ngomzuzu wokugqibela, nceda uxelele umphathi ngaphambi komcimbi okanye into yokuqala ngosuku olulandelayo ngokuzisola ngokunyanisekileyo.
02 - Yintoni enokuyigqoka kwisiganeko?
Imikhosi kunye neendwendwe zilahlekile kwicala lobuchule bokuzimela: ukugqoka kakuhle kunye nokulungelelanisa (yonke into kufuneka ihlale icinezelwe). Oko kwathiwa, ezininzi iimemo ziza kunika izikhokelo:
- Izambatho zoshishino (iifanele kunye neempahla zokugqoka)
- Umtya omnyama / umnyama omncinci (unxibe ngokugqithiseleyo ebusuku)
- Amashishini angenasiphelo (iifesti / i-khakis kunye neengubo zamade ezinde)
- IiJebethi kunye nezibophelelo ezifunekayo (njengoko ziyalelwe)
Ezinye iziganeko kunye neendawo ezinokuthi zicebise ezinye iingubo eziqhelekileyo, ezifana negalufa, i-tennis, ukugibela iifama, ii-resorts, njl njl.
03 - Ufanele ufike nini kwisiganeko?
Umsitho wesiganeko uchitha ixesha elibalulekileyo kunye nezixhobo zokucwangcisa nokuqhuba isiganeko, ngoko abaninzi abantu bayazi impendulo yalo mbuzo: kuba ngexesha! Ukuba ungummeli womninimzi, impendulo kukuba kufuneka ufike kwiintsuku ezingama-30 ekuqaleni (uya kunikwa ixesha, ubonise xa uceliwe).
Ukuba uyindwendwe, qonda ukuba umququzeleli ukhethe uluhlu lwesimemo. Izimemo ezininzi ziza kubandakanya i-ajenda emfutshane ebonakalayo xa iindwendwe zingafika kumcimbi, ngokubonelela ngefestile yemizuzu eyi-15 ukuya kwe-30 yokubhalisa kunye nokwamkeleka kwamkelwa.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuhlala ixesha elide kunokwenzeka okanye ukuya kwisigqibo somcimbi.
04 - Kufuneka nini na ukuxhaphaza isandla kwisiganeko?
Njalo ngokufika nokuhamba. Lo mgaqo lula ukuba abantu abambalwa bayaphula. Bulisani wonke umntu ngokuqinileyo, ukuxhamla izandla, ukumncumo obumnandi, kunye noqhagamshelwano lwamehlo ngqo. Nangona kunjalo, xa usondela kwiqela labantu, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iindwendwe kufuneka zisoloko zixhaphaza isandla somkhosi kuqala.
Kakade ke, kukho iimeko xa ukubingelelana kungenakwenzeka, njengokungathi xa izandla zombini zizele. Kuloo meko, nayiphi na into inokugxuma kwaye isebenzise uhlobo oluthile lwesenzo somzimba ukuhambisa isibingelelo.
05 - Ufanele uqalise njani abantu kwiqela elithile kwisiganeko?
Uninzi lwabantu luya kuzifumana ngethuba elithile ukuzisa abantu abahlukahlukeneyo kwisiganeko, ingakumbi xa kubani abaza kulindeleka ukuba bazi onke amaqela. Kodwa yintoni umyalelo wezethulo? Khumbula nje kwimithetho:
- Ukuzisa abantu abancinci kubantu abaphezulu.
- Khumbula ukubandakanya izihloko (umz., UDkt, uMgwebi, njl.) Kunye nomhlathi wokuqala (umzekelo, Mnu, Nksk. Ms.).
06 - Yintoni enokuthetha ngayo kwimeko?
Kubalulekile ukuphulaphula ngokuthe tye (ungaphazamisi) kunye nezakhono zengxoxo kwiimeko zeqela. Oku kuthetha ukugcina ulwimi oluvulekileyo lomzimba (ukuma okanye ukuhlala ngokuchanekileyo, ungadluli iinqwelo, kwaye ugcine unxibelelwano olungamehlo) kwaye ubonise umdla kwabanye.
Nika isandla kwiintetho ngokukwazi ukuthetha kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezifundo, fumana izihloko zomdla kunye kunye nokuphepha ukulungisa oko abanye bathethayo. Qinisekisa ukuba uquka wonke umntu kwiqela kwingxoxo (kwaye kungekhona enye okanye ezimbini). Khuthaza abantu ukuba bathethe ngokwabo, kwaye bababalo xa bebonelela kunye / okanye bemkela ukuncoma.
Kubuhlungu ukungongeza oku kulandelayo, kodwa kuyimfuneko kwabanye: gwema ukusebenzisa ulwimi oluthile kunye nokuxoxisana kwiintetho.
07 - Akufanele uxoxe ngani kwimeko?
Njengoko kubalulekile ukuqonda into enokuthetha ngayo, kukho izihloko eziliqela ekufuneka ziphephe ngokuqhelekileyo:
- Izihloko zezemali
- Izihloko zempilo yomuntu (eyakho nabanye)
- Izihloko ezihlukileyo
- Ukuhleka
08 - Kufuneka nini ukuchasisa imirhumo eyongezelelweyo (ukuchazwa) kwabanye kumcimbi?
Ingangathi ibonakale imdala, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuvumela abantu bazi ukuba ubabamba ngokuphakamileyo. Kwaye isenzo sisoloko singakhange singabonakali ngummkeli. Imizekelo emininzi (kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ayikho uluhlu olubandakanya bonke) xa ukuchazwa kubalulekile kwisiganeko:
- Landela ukhokelo lwabanye (umz., Umphathi) ukuze ukwazi ukuba nini / kuphi ukuhlala.
- Gcina iingcango kwabanye.
- Musa ukucinga ukuba izihlalo ezingenanto zikhoyo.
- Vumela abanye ukuba bathathe isihlalo esingcono.
- Lindela ukuthetha ade abanye bakuvume.
- Lindela umphathi ngaphambi kokuthatha isiselo sokuqala.
- Lindela ukutya kude kube ngumntu wonke ekhutshiwe kwaye umphathi useqalile.
09 - Yiyiphi enye imigaqo yokuziphatha efanelekileyo yokugcina i-etiquette ekufuneka igcinwe engqondweni?
- Ungalokothi uphuze izidyo ezingaphezulu kwezibini.
- Vumela umcimbi wesiganeko ukuba wenze i-toast yokuqala.
- Yazisa imithombo yamaphi na izithintelo zokutya phambi komcimbi.
- Qonda indlela yokusebenzisa i-flatware (udle ngaphandle).
- I-Glassware ifakwe ngakwesokudla.
- Iiplati zesonka ziya kufakwa ngakwesobunxele.
- Beka ifom kunye nommese kwindawo ye-4:00 xa ugqibile.
- Beka i-napkins kwihlalo wehlalo okanye ingalo xa uhamba ngokukhawuleza.
- Uphando ngesihloko somcimbi kunye nendawo ngaphambi kokufika.
- Ndiyabulela umphathi phambi komntu ngaphambi kokushiya.
- Thumela "unombulelo" inqaku kumphathi ngaphakathi kweveki.
10 - Yintoni enokuyigqoka kwisiganeko?
Imikhosi kunye neendwendwe zilahlekile kwicala lobuchule bokuzimela: ukugqoka kakuhle kunye nokulungelelanisa (yonke into kufuneka ihlale icinezelwe). Oko kwathiwa, ezininzi iimemo ziza kunika izikhokelo:
- Izambatho zoshishino (iifanele kunye neempahla zokugqoka)
- Umtya omnyama / umnyama omncinci (unxibe ngokugqithiseleyo ebusuku)
- Amashishini angenasiphelo (iifesti / i-khakis kunye neengubo zamade ezinde)
- IiJebethi kunye nezibophelelo ezifunekayo (njengoko ziyalelwe)
Ezinye iziganeko kunye neendawo ezinokuthi zicebise ezinye iingubo eziqhelekileyo, ezifana negalufa, i-tennis, ukugibela iifama, ii-resorts, njl njl.
11 - Yintoni enokuyigqoka kwisiganeko?
Imikhosi kunye neendwendwe zilahlekile kwicala lobuchule bokuzimela: ukugqoka kakuhle kunye nokulungelelanisa (yonke into kufuneka ihlale icinezelwe). Oko kwathiwa, ezininzi iimemo ziza kunika izikhokelo:
- Izambatho zoshishino (iifanele kunye neempahla zokugqoka)
- Umtya omnyama / umnyama omncinci (unxibe ngokugqithiseleyo ebusuku)
- Amashishini angenasiphelo (iifesti / i-khakis kunye neengubo zamade ezinde)
- IiJebethi kunye nezibophelelo ezifunekayo (njengoko ziyalelwe)
Ezinye iziganeko kunye neendawo ezinokuthi zicebise ezinye iingubo eziqhelekileyo, ezifana negalufa, i-tennis, ukugibela iifama, ii-resorts, njl njl.