Izindlela zokuPhila ziyakwazi ukukhusela iziNtu zobuntu
- Njalo ufumane imvume ebhaliweyo evela kubaxhasi phambi kokupapasha amabali abo.
- Fumana iindlela zokudala ukukhusela iinkcukacha zakho kunye nolwazi kubathengi abangabangela ubuhlungu okanye babe neentloni ukuba zabo iinkcukacha okanye iinkcukacha zabo zityhilwa.
- Yenza into ecacileyo malunga nento oyenzayo. Ungaze uzame ukuhlawula abaxhasi. Abayi kubaxolela xa befumanisa.
Ingxaki
Sonke siyazi ukuba ukuxelela amabali ngabantu ngabona yindlela efanelekileyo yokufumana abaxhasi ukuba baphendule kwizibheno zethu zokuxhasa imali.
Kuyinto engavamile ukufumana izinto zokuxhaswa ngemali kule mihla engabandakanyi ibali malunga nomntu othile oncedisayo.
Siquka loo mabali kwiincwadi zethu zokuxhaswa ngemali , sibonga iileta , nakwi-imeyile yethu yokunxibelelana njengeendaba.
Nangona kunjalo, kuthekani ukuba uthando lwakho lusebenza nabantu abadinga ukhuseleko? Sisabalisa njani amabali, kwaye sihlala sinyanisekileyo kubaxhasi bethu ngexesha elifanayo?
Isixazululo
Ndiyabuza le mibuzo yezinto ezimbini zokuthengisa kunye nokukopisha abantu abasebenza engenzi-nzuzo namhlanje. Babenomdla kakhulu ngeengcebiso zabo.
Lisa Sargent, uSargent Communications
ULisa ungomnye wabonobhala bezona zinto zihamba phambili kwibala lokungenzi nzuzo, esebenzisana namakhulu abantu abathengi ngaphezu kweminyaka.
ULisa wathi, "Ndinabathengi ababini ukuba yimfihlo yinto enkulu.
Omnye unceda abantu abangenamakhaya kunye nalabo abanomlutha weziyobisi okanye utywala ukuvuselela ubomi babo. Omnye usebenza kunye nokuxhaphazwa, ukushiywa kunye nokunyanzelwa abantwana. "
Nazi izinto ezimbalwa uLisa ucebisa ngazo ekujonganeni nemiba yemfihlo njengalezi zimbini zimo:
- Ungasebenzisi igama langempela lomthengi . Sitshintshe kwaye uthembeke ngayo. Ngokomzekelo, zithi "uJoanne akayena igama lakhe langempela, kunjalo."
- Misela iinkcukacha ezingasinika ubungqina bomntu.
- Sebenzisa iifoto zangempela kunye neenkcukacha kuphela xa ukhululiwe esayinwe okanye imvume ecacileyo.
- Abanye abantu bayonwabile ukuxelela ibali labo, njalo bambuza .
- Sebenzisa iifoto zomntu ongokoqobo, kodwa ungabonakali . Fumana imvume yabo kuqala.
- Sebenzisa izithuba zabasebenzi, kunokuba bathengi. Unokufotela abasebenzi abancedisa umthengi onokuguqulwa komqolo, umzekelo.
- Sebenzisa iimpahla zezithuthi kunye ne-disclaimer . Umzekelo: "Ngegama [igama elithi] sihlonipha wonke umntu oza kuthi uncedo-kwaye abaninzi basebenzela ukuqala kokuqala ebomini. Ngoko ngelixa amabali abo enyanisweni, amagama abaxumi kunye nemifanekiso unokutshintshwa ukuze bavikele ubumfihlo babo. Ndiyabonga ngokuqonda. "
- Sebenzisa umxube wamabali . Hlanganisa iinkcukacha kwiiprofayili eziliqela ukuya kumntu oyedwa. Nangona kunjalo, sebenzisa i-disclaimer ethi wenze oku.
ULisa wathi kwakhona:
"Andiyi kubhala kubani na owenza izinto okanye angabonakali ukusetyenziswa kweemifanekiso ze-stocks. Ngaphezu koko, ndihlala ndivumela abo ndibabhalele ngethuba lokuhlaziya nokuvuma ibali okanye isibheno.
"Ndihlala ndibaxelela oku ngaphambi kokuba ndixoxe nabo. Kubalulekile kuba abantu abaninzi abanalo ingqalelo ukuba uya kubahlonela ibali labo. Ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba bayabulela kwaye baninzi ngokuzayo ukuba banokubonakala kokugqibela. Uninzi lwexesha, bacela kuphela ukulungiswa okuncinane. "
Pamela Grow, Iinkqubo eziPhezulu zoPhuhliso
U-Pamela ngumcebisi ocebileyo kunye nomlobi oqaqambileyo. Ujolise ekuxhaseni imali kunye nokuthengiswa kwezinto ezincinci ezingenzi nzuzo. UPamela waphendula kumbuzo wam malunga nokugcinwa kwabathengi kunye nokubhala ibali:
"Ndandifumene nale meko ngokwam ngexeshana kunye nenhlangano encinci engenzi nzuzo ehlinzeka ngononophelo lwempilo kubantwana abasweleyo. Baye babelane ngamabali ambalwa kwisayithi yabo kwaye batyikitye i-aivers kubantwana kodwa, ngenxa yobuncinane babo; Andizange ndikhululeke ukusebenzisa amagama angempela okanye iifoto.
"Esikhundleni sam, ndadala amabali esekelwe kwiimeko ezithile ezicacileyo." Ndiyitshintshe igama lomntwana, indawo kunye namaxesha athile ngokobuhlanga. "Ngaphezu koko, ndasebenzisa iifoto zezithombe. .
"Nasi umzekelo wezinye zeziprofayile:
Ngeendlela ezininzi, uChris ungumfana oneminyaka eli-11 ubudala. Uyaziqhenya ngebhola kwaye udlala iDragons yase-Atlantis kwikhompyutha. Uyisithixo (kunye nomnxeba wesinye isihlandlo) soodadewabo oneminyaka eyisixhenxe ubudala. Kwaye ungcini kunamahloni. Ngoko ukuba umntwana omtsha eklasini lakhe lesihlanu kwibakala e-Garfield Elementary school akazange ancedwe yiyo yokuba uChris wayenezintathu zangaphambili eziphukile. "
Ngaphantsi?
Qhubeka uxelela amabali. Yiyo eyabangela abaxhasi . Kodwa sebenzisa ukukhanya xa ukhusela abo ukhonzayo. Ukuguqula iinkcukacha, kodwa vumela uvakalelo lukhanye.