Izinto ezili-10 endazibambayo umntu othe wandixelela ngezotyela

Ndandineminyaka engama-20 ubudala xa ndifumene iqabane kwindawo yokutyela, kwaye kuthiwa yinto ephakamileyo yokufunda i-curve. Nangona ndandisebenza ngaphambili kwishishini lokutyela, ndafumana ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukusebenza kwindawo yokutyela kunye neendawo zokutyela kwakukho izinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Ndicinga ukuba oko kuyinyaniso kubaninzi abatsha bendawo yokutyela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba baneminyaka yabo. Nazi izinto ezili-10 endinqwenela ukuba ndizazi phambi kokuba ndizenzele ishishini.

1. UMtyholi useNkcukacha . Oku kuyinyaniso kwishishini lokutyela. Xa sasivula ivenkile yethu yesibini bekungekho umthengi wayala i-ribeye esazi ukuba sasingenayo i-steak knives. Naphi na. Ngethuba lokuvula ivenkile entsha yokudlela esasiyikhohlileyo ukuyila i-steak knives. Duh. Ndinqwenela ukuba ndineenkcukacha zendawo yokutyela ukuze ndikhange, ukuze ndiqiniseke ukuba andizange ndilahlekelwe nantoni na.
2. Igragri yam yaseKholeji yayingenamsebenzi kakhulu . Ukulungelelanisa, i-BA kwimbali ingenakuncedo ngokubanzi, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kwimeko yezoshishino. Kwaye ivenkile yokuqala iyona nto iphambili kwaye ishishini . Ndingathanda ukuba ndithathe iiklasi zeshishini kwiikholeji. Ndachukumisa indlela yam ngokusebenzisa i-spreadsheets kunye neencwadi ezikhawulezayo, kodwa kwakungekho nto enhle kuyo. Ukuba awunayo imvelaphi yoshishino, unokufuna ukucinga ngokuthatha amacandelo amashishini ambalwa ukuze ufunde izinto ezisiseko.
3. Uzuza, Njengaye, iipiliyoni eziPhilile ezineendawo zokutyela . Ewe, ndenze njalo. Ukuba ngumcebisi kwimpahla yemenyu kunye neengcali zemihla ngemihla kwakuthetha ukuzama zonke iintlobo zokutya okumnandi, amaxesha ambalwa ngosuku. Ukuba ne-fryer ejulile kunye neasizi ezingenamkhawulo ezifumanekayo azizange zincede. Yongeza kwilekho ekhohlokileyo kwiidrafti ezivela kwimisebenzi enomsebenzi, ishushu eshushu esigcwele i-crostini kunye neendlovu zokutya kunye ... kakuhle, ufumana ingcamango.

1. Ukuba nguBosti Akukho konke Okuzonwabisa . Ezinye izityela zokutyela kwindawo ethile zazingqinga amehlo abo kum. Ewe, oku kuluphawu olubonakalayo. Kodwa kunjalo, luhlengahlengiso olukhulu ekubeni ngumqeshwa ukuba ngumnini. Kwakhona, ezinye iikhosi zolawulo jikelele ziza kuba luncedo, nangona kunjalo, ndicinga ukuba ukulawula ngokufanelekileyo yinto nje oya kufunda ukuyenza emva kwexesha.

1. Abantu bamba (bhala ubuso obuhlungu) . Sasinani elilinganayo lomsebenzi webabi ngaphezu kweminyaka, ezinye ezincinci, ezinye zincinci. Ngamanye amaxesha sambamba umntu ekuba, ngamanye amaxesha sasizibambile. Kuyinto nje into ebuhlungu yobomi abathile abantu baya kuba, ukuba bacinga ukuba bangahamba nayo. I-Booze yayisoloko yinto ekhethiweyo, esasifunda ngokukhawuleza ukugcina ivalwe kwaye ivalwe ngokuqinileyo. Kukho iindlela ezininzi ezithintekayo zokuthintela ukwebiwa kwemisebenzi.
2. Umtshato Wakho uhle kakhulu . Ngoku, ezininzi izibini ziqhuba amabhizinisi aphumeleleyo kunye. KUNYE ... ngaphandle kokuba umtshato wakho uqine kakhulu kwaye ulunge kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni neqabane lakho kwaye nonke nilungile kunye nomnye wenu (umninimzi wokutyela) osebenza emsebenzini ixesha elininzi, ndiya kucebisa kakhulu ukuba ndivule ukuvula ivenkile yakho ukuba unjengokutshata. Kodwa ke mna nje.
3. Kukho iindidi zeDrama . Ulibale ngoMzalwana Omkhulu okanye Uhlala NamaKardashians . Ndilindele i-TLC ukukhulula i-reality show yokutyela. Ngokungafani nenye inyaniso ye-TV fakery (ekujonge kuwe, i-Duggars) yokubonisa imbonakalo yendawo yokutyela iya kuba yi- FULL ye drama. Wonke umntu uphawula wonke umntu, kukuhlambalaza, kukho inani elifanelekileyo lokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi, kunye nokungasebenzi ngokwaneleyo ukwenzela ukuba kube yindawo yokuzonwabisa yokusebenzela. Kanti kunjalo nohlobo oluxhalabisa ukulawula.

1. Inceda Ukuba Ngabantu Abantu . Andiyena abantu abantu. Kwaye ndakufumanisa ukuba ndinevenkile yokutyela. Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba ndiba nobungane (ndiyakwenza) kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ndingabantu abantu ngendlela yokuthengisa umphathi / umphathi kufuneka ukuba, ngakumbi xa ejongene nezikhalazo zabathengi. Ukuba abantu abayiyo into yenu, kukho izinto ezininzi kwi-back-of-house, qinisekisa ukuba ngubani omelela phambili kwendlu ngabantu abantu.
2. Indawo yokutya iBhomu. Fumana isizathu .
3. Yazi ixesha lokuthetha i-Goodbye. Zonke izinto ezilungileyo kufuneka ziphele. Ngaphandle kwezinto ezimbalwa, zonke iindawo zokutyela zikufutshane ekugqibeleni . Ingaba uceba ukuvula yonke imisebenzi yakho okanye ufuna ukuvula ivenkile entsha kwaye uyithengise kwiminyaka embalwa, cwangcisa isicwangciso sokuphuma kuqala . Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ungafumani amatyala amaninzi, kwaye ukuba unqumle ukuba ufuna ukuphuma ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ukulindeleke, uya kuqonda ukuba yiyiphi indlela ekufuneka uhambe ngayo.