Ukwenziwa komntu kuyisisitshixo sokuLahla iSuku lokuzalwa sokuHlola
Amathuba kukuba, ukuba unjengabantu abadala kakhulu, awukhumbuli iqela lokuqala oya kulo njengomntwana. Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba iqela lokuqala laliyimicimbi yokuzalwa. Enyanisweni, mhlawumbi bekube ngumcimbi wokuzalwa kwakho! Ehlabathini lonke, imihla yokuzalwa ibhiyozelwa njengoko sibonisa ukuphela konyaka kunye nokuqala komtsha. Izihlobo kunye nabahlobo baqokelela ukwabelana nokutya nokusela, ukuzisa izipho kunye nokuzonwabisa okukhethiweyo.
Ngenxa yokuba ezi ziganeko zezobomi zivela kuphela kanye ngonyaka, kukho umxhesho othile kumninimzi ukuhambisa isiganeko esingalibalekiyo. Kodwa khumbula ukuba akumele ukuba "uphelele". Esikhundleni sokugxininisa ngaphezu kweenkcukacha zonke zokugqibela njengoko uzama ukufezekisa, gxininisa ekucwangceni umcimbi wokuzalwa owawunomdla weendwendwe. Ezi ziqhosha ezikhethekileyo ziza kwenza umcimbi wokuzalwa wokuba ukhumbule iminyaka ezayo.
Ukwenza i-Birthday Party ekhethekileyo
Imihla yokuzalwa yimiba yomntu kunye nemini yokuzalwa kufuneka ibe njalo. Ukuba awukwazi isivakalisi sakho sembeko, hlangana ulwazi malunga naye. Ziziphi izinto ezithandwayo kunye neminqweno? Bachitha njani ixesha labo lokukhulula? Ukufunda nokuba bayakuzonwabisa nokudlala igalofu, ukupheka okanye ukuhamba, kuza kubakho amathuba amaninzi okuba wenze umcimbi weqela kunye nemininingwane yokudala.
Umzekelo, sebenzisa umdlalo ozithandayo njengomxholo wekhekhe lokuzalwa kunye nemihlobiso.
Kwi-golfer, fakela ukubeka eluhlaza kwinqanaba lebala okanye indawo, ukuba iindwendwe zizame isandla. Sebenzisa iibhulaphu eziluhlaza kunye neebhola zekhandlela. Ukuba isivakashi sakho sokuhlonipha ngumhambi, thumela i-postcards yeendwendwe zendwendwe endaweni yeememo eziprintwe ngokwezifiso kwaye unikeze imenyu eyahlukeneyo yehlabathi kwiindawo ezithile abaye bavakashela.
Kwimibutho yabantwana, ukufumana izinto zokuzilibazisa kunokuba nzima kuncike kwiminyaka. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana usemncinci ukuba adlale ibhola okanye enze kwimifanekiso yokudanisa, khetha indawo yomdla kwaye yenza loo mxholo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wokuzalwa uthanda ama-pirates kunye ne-adventure, ubambe ukuzingela. Kubantwana abancinci, gcina lula kwaye usebenze kumaqela amathathu kwaye ugcine uluhlu lwezinto ezifutshane. Abantwana abakhulileyo baya kunandipha umngeni wokufumana izinto ezininzi ngokwabo, ukuvuselela ukhuphiswano lomvuzo. Abantwana bakhumbula oko bakwenzayo kwindibano nokuba ngaba badlala imidlalo. Okubalulekileyo kukuba ingaba iibhaluni zihambelana ne-napkins kunye nombala wemibala.
Piñatas okanye i Cocktails?
Yonke imibutho yokuzalwa yokuphumelela - kunye nayo yonke imibutho ephumeleleyo ngokubanzi-idinga ukucwangciswa okuphambili. Xa ucwangcisa umcimbi wokuzalwa, kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezahlukileyo ukucinga ngazo ukuze sizityhule zibe ezimbini iintlobo zamaqela okuzalwa: abantwana kunye nabantu abadala.
Amaqela okuzalwa aBantwana
Xa abantwana befikelela kwiminyaka ethile, bayazi kakuhle xa umhla wabo wokuzalwa, nangona ingcamango yabo yexesha langempela ayinakuchaneka. Akuthathi ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba badibanise usuku lokuzalwa kunye neqela, ikhekhe, ikhandlela, imihlobiso kunye ....
Ukuzonwabisa kunye nemidlalo yazo zonke iyakwazi ukushiya umgcini wefestile kwaye iphelile. Ukunciphisa izinga loxinzelelo xa uceba umcimbi wokuzalwa wabantwana, landela ezi ngcebiso:
- Nciphisa inani labantwana : ukulawula kwesithupha kunokulingana nenani leendwendwe elineminyaka yokuzalwa komntwana. Umzekelo, memela abantwana abane kwimicimbi yokuzalwa yeminyaka emine ubudala. Nangona oko kungenakulungeleka kwiimeko zentsapho enkulu, ngokubanzi, kungcono ukumema abantwana abancinci kwimicimbi yokuzalwa yabantwana. Akuthathe ixesha elide iqela elicwangcisiweyo elifanelekileyo ukuba likhuphe ekulawuleni xa abantwana abaninzi banomdla, bevuyiswe liqela kwaye baxhamle kwikhekhe le-sugary, bathathe. Imidlalo iya kuba nzima ukulawula kwaye umntwana wokuzalwa uhlala ephazamisekile. Ukuba ufuna ukumema inani elikhulu labantwana nangayiphi na isizathu, uncedo olongezelelweyo. Ukuba namalungu angaphezulu - nokuba ngaba abasebenzi abakhokhelwayo okanye abahlobo abambalwa kunye neentsapho - abaphethe ukugcinwa kwabantwana abangabonwayo bangaba ngumsindisi.
- Gcina mfutshane: Nangona iyure nesiqingatha kubonakala ngathi lixesha elifutshane lokubhiyozela ukuzalwa komntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala, ukuba imizuzu engama-90 ibonakale ngathi imizuzu engama-900 xa abantwana be-cranky abafuna imva ye-ntambama baqala ukuphazamiseka kwabo. Ngoko gcina iqela elisemthethweni ixesha ukuya kwiyure nesiqingatha; Abazali abaninzi, xa beqokelela abantwana babo, bahlale behlala kunye nentlalo ekupheleni kweqela ukuze iqela lihambe iiyure ezimbini nantoni na.
- Ixesha elichanekileyo : Amaqela e-cocktail angaqala ngo-5: 00 ngemini. Ayikho imibutho yokuzalwa yabantwana. Ukuba iindwendwe ziseneminyaka yobudala, ixesha lexesha liphakathi kwentsasa yamasa nangomso. Ukuqala ixesha elithile ngaphambi kwemini kwaye iphelile ngo-1: 30 PM isebenza kakuhle - iindwendwe ziza kufika kwaye zilungele imini yasemini. Abantwana abakhulileyo esikolweni banokuhlala ngokukhawuleza kodwa kungengonaxesha elifanelekileyo leqela. Cwangcisa ukubhiyozela kwakho ukuphela ngo-5: 00. Emva kweeyure ezimbalwa zokudlala, bakhathele kwaye balambile ukutya, ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzibuyisela ekhaya kwakhona.
Amaqela okuzalwa aMaDala
Abantu abadala kakhulu banabantwana entliziyweni kwaye bajonge phambili kwaye banandipha umthendeleko. Liyithuba lokunandipha inkampani yabahlobo kunye nosapho, fumana izipho, kwaye ube yimbindi yokuqwalasela isikhashana. Oko kuthethwa, abanye abantu abadala bathanda ukuhlangana okuncinci, ukudibana; abanye abakwazi ukulinda ukumemeza kwiindawo zokuhlamba kunye neqela kweso siganeko esikhulu. Ngoko isinyathelo sokuqala ekucwangceni umcimbi omdala wokuzalwa kukuba ukwazi isivakalisi sakho kwaye ulungiselele iqela ebuntwini babo kunye neemfuno zabo.
Imibhiyozo yokuzalwa yabantu abadala
Iimpawu ezinzima zokuzalwa akudingeki ukuba zibhiyozelwe ngendlela enkulu. Kwabo banentsapho enkulu, inethiwekhi enkulu yentlalo okanye ishishini, okanye abo banandipha ukuxubana phakathi kwesihlwele sabantu abafuna ukuthanda, banokuba ngcono. Kwabanye abanokuba neengqungquthela zangaphakathi zabahlobo, okanye mhlawumbi encinane, intsapho edibeneyo, ukuhlanganisana okungakumbi kunokuthandwa. Ingongoma ephambili apha kukulinganisela kunye nomkhosi wakho malunga neengcinga zakhe kwimibhiyozo yabo. Ukuba umcimbi uyamangalisa, ke uthetha kumvakalisi weqabane lomzuzwana okanye iqabane okanye abahlobo abasondeleyo ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo. Amaqela angamaxhala angonwabile, kodwa inqaku elimangalisa limele libe liva elihle elivela kwixesha lokubhiyozela, kungekhona ukushiya uphawu kumcimbi ngokwawo.
Ukwenziwa komntu kukubalulekileyo okwenza umcimbi wokuzalwa ungakhohlwa. Uphando lubuyele kunyaka abazalelwe ngalo kwaye zibandakanya iinkcukacha ezithengiswayo ezivela kweso sihlandlo ukuya kumxholo womcimbi. Ngokuxhomekeke konyaka, memela iindwendwe ukuba zigqoke njengoko ziza kuba nazo ukuba kwakunjalo unyaka. Ngama-1960 ama-hippie impahla kunye nee-1980 iinwele ezinkulu zingenza umcimbi ube mnandi kwaye unike amathuba amakhulu ezithombe, ukuhleka nokukhumbula.