Indlela yokwenza uMboniso ogqithiseleyo ngakumbi kwiNkundla

Kutheni iingubo zakho kunye neDemeanor Matter

Ukulungelele loo mhla wenkundla? Nervous? Ukuzibuza into enokuyenza kunye nokokugqoka? Ingaba ungummangalelwa, ummangali, okanye ubungqina, nakhu izicebiso ezithile zokwenza impembelelo entle kwilingo okanye ukuva.

Okokugqoka kunye nendlela osebenzayo rhoqo, kubaluleke kakhulu xa uvela enkundleni.

Ukuba ucinga ukuba isimo sakho sengqondo okanye ukubonakala akuthandabuzeki, cinga ukuba kunokubangela ukuba ukhankanywe ngokunyeliswa kwenkundla.

Thatha le ngxaki yentombazana yaseFlorida eyanikezelwa ukuchaswa ngesimo sengqondo sayo (wayengummangalelwa kwimeko yamachiza). Xa ebuyela enkundleni, wayedumala ngenxa yenguqu yakhe kwisimo sengqondo nokubonakala.

Ingaba ungummangali okanye ummangalelwa , okanye u bungqina kumgwebo, ukubonakala kwakho, ukugqoka kunye nezenzo kunokuchaphazela indlela inkundla ikubona ngayo kwaye uphumelele kangakanani ukubonisa ityala lakho.

Ukuhlonipha iNkundla

Inkundla yindawo enesidima, emele igosa lezomthetho likarhulumente, kwaye ijaji ifuna intlonelo njengommeli ka rhu lumente, nokuba ngaba yintlangano, urhulumente, okanye ummandla. Imithetho ecacileyo iyasebenza kulabo abazisa amatyala enkundleni okanye abo batyala amacala. Enyanisweni, nabani na ovela phambi kwenkundla, kuquka namangqina kunye namalungu oluntu, banembopheleleko yokusebenza ngenhlonipho.

Igama eliphambili kule ngxoxo "inhlonipho." Kumele uhloniphe ijaji njengommeleli wenkundla, kwaye inhlonipho kwinkqubo yenkundla.

Nantsi imimiselo eqhelekileyo ukuba inkundla ezininzi zifuna ukuba uhambisane naso enkundleni:

Xa Uzobonisa

Yiba khona ngexesha. Oko kuthetha okungenani imizuzu eyi-10 phambi kwexesha lethu lokubonakala. Kufuneka uhlale kwaye ulinde, kodwa oko kukuhle kunokuba usebenze ngokukhawuleza. Ufike emva kwexesha, kwaye unokufumana ityala lakho lidlulileyo.

Oko ukugqoka

Gqoka iimpahla zoshishino. Akukho zibopho zeenyawo zasendle, izicathulo ezivulekileyo, izitampu, iipketi ze-mini, i-T-shirts, okanye ezinye izambatho ezingezizo. Ukuba ungathandabuzi ukuba ugqoke, ugqoke phezulu kunokuba ungaphantsi. Musa ukugqoka isigqoko ngaphandle kokuba kungenxa yezizathu zonqulo.

Yintoni na ongeyena onokuyizisa kwinkundla

I-Gum chewing, iteksi, iirejista zokurekhoda (njenge-PDA okanye iPods), iifowuni, ukutya, ukusela, okanye amaphephandaba AWAKHO avunyelwe.

Iifowuni zeefowuni azivunyelwe kwiinkantolo ezininzi. Ukuba uvumelekile ukuba ulethe ifowuni yakho, TURN IT OFF!

Abantwana bavunyelwe kwiinkoliso ezininzi, kodwa kuphela xa bezolile. Ukuba kufuneka uvelise abantwana bakho, unokuba nomntu onokumthabatha umntwana xa ephakamisa okanye ephazamisayo.

Qonda i-Etiquette yeNkundla (Ewe, kukho into enjalo)

Ngokuqhelekileyo, kufuneka ube nemvume yokuhambisa ngaphaya kweengongoma ezithile kwijaji okanye kwijaji. Umzekelo, ukuba ubizwa ngokuba ngubufakazi, uya kufungelwa kuyo. Awukwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle kwebhokisi yobungqina ngaphandle kwemvume. Ukuba uhleli etafileni yokukhusela okanye ushushiso kunye negqwetha lakho, awukwazi ukuqhubela phambili ngaphandle kwemvume.

Ijaji iya kuthethwa ngokuthi "Mhlonishwa ," kungekhona "uMgwebi Smith." Thetha kuphela kumgwebi kunye (ngelizwi elithambileyo) kummeli wakho.

Musa ukulungisa isiluleko esichasayo okanye elinye iqela. Xa ubhekisela kwabanye, ungasebenzisi amagama okuqala. "Mnu Smith," kungekhona "uJim," nokuba ngaba ungumkhwe wakho.

Thetha kuphela xa ufundiswe okanye unikezelwa imvume. Musa ukuphazamisa. Xa uphendula imibuzo, mfutshane kwaye uye kwinqanaba; uphendule umbuzo owawuceliwe kwaye unqume.

Musa ukuphazamisa nawuphi na umntu, ingakumbi ijaji.

Umntu oyedwa kuphela uthetha ngexesha , ngenxa yokurekhoda amadivayisi kwintendelezo kunye nokuziphatha.

Musa ukuphikisana , ingakumbi ngejaji.

Sebenzisa isiNgesi esisesikweni, ungabi sisangqa.

Ngamanye amagama, yiba ngowokuziphatha kakuhle kwaye ucinge ngesigxina senkundla. Bonisa intlonelo kumgwebi nabanye abasenkundleni.