Ngokugxininisa kwiMandla akho, Unako ukuphucula umphumo wakho (kunye neNgeniso)
Ingcinga eqhelekileyo kukuba sonke sinobuchule kunye nobubuthakathaka, kodwa ngokwenene, asinalo. Oko sikufumanayo sinetalente zendalo kunye neentalente, kwaye kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ezi zinto azifani neamandla kunye nobuthathaka.
Iimpawu zendalo zinobuchule esinabo obubangela ukuba iingqondo zethu zicinge kwaye zenze izigqibo. Abafundile ngokufunda enye incwadi okanye ukuthatha iklasi ethile. Yindlela esisebenzisa ngayo ezo talente zendalo okanye amakhono anquma ukuba sinako amandla kunye nokubuthathaka.
Kukho iiNyaniso ezimbini ezinzima
- Xa uvumela impumelelo yakho kuxhomekeke kwiitalente zakho, wenza amandla. Umzekelo: Wena ngokwemvelo ulungile kakhulu ekuxazululeni iingxaki. Umsebenzi wakho uthembele kakhulu ekukwazi ukuxazulula iingxaki. Ngaloo ndlela, ngokudala ukuxhomekeka kumandla okwemvelo onayo, wenze amandla. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho awufuneki ukuba usombulule iingxaki, uya kuba nekhono elifanayo - kungekhona okwenene, ukuqonda, amandla.
- Xa uvumela impumelelo yakho kuxhomekeke kwii-non-talente zakho, wenza ubuthathaka. Umzekelo: Awukho ngokwemvelo ulungele umsebenzi ocacileyo. Umsebenzi wakho, ngelanga, kufuna umlinganiselo omkhulu wemisebenzi ecacileyo. Ngenxa yokuba wamkele lo msebenzi, kwaye kuyimfuno yetalente ongenayo - uyenze ubuthathaka ngokudala ukuxhomekeka kwi-non talent yakho.
Cinga nje ngolu hlobo: Amathenda kunye neentalente zifana neebhokisi ezimbini. Ibhokisi yokuqala iqulethe isipho ( italente yeli talente ) kwaye ifika yonke isongwe ngesaphetha. Ibhokisi yesibini (engekho talente), nangona kunjalo, akukho nto kodwa ingxaki. Cinga nje ngebhokisi likaPandora. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni umxholo webhokisi, ibhokisi nganye iqulethe ikhona.
Ibhokisi # 1 lingenokuba yinto enhle , kwaye iBhokisi # 2 inokuba yingozi kuphela . Akukho nto eyenzekayo uze uvula iibhokisi. Ukuba awuyi kuvula ibhokisi # 1, awunakufumana isipho esivela ngaphakathi. Ngokufanayo, ukuba awuyi kuvula ibhokisi # 2, awuze uhlupheke nemiphumo.
Amalente kunye neentalente asebenza ngendlela efanayo. Ukuba ungeke uthembele kwiitalente zakho, ngoko awukwazi ukuqonda amandla angaphakathi. Ngaphazamisekanga, ukuba awuze uthembele kwii-talente zakho, awuze ufumane ubunzima obunayo kwizinto ezithile.
Ukuzifaka isicelo
Ulawula lo mandla ngendlela ozifaka ngayo. Xa usuyenzile ukuguqulwa ngendlela ebonakalayo, uya kubona ukuba nayiphi na ubuthakathaka obakho kuphela ngenxa yokuba uyenzile (ngokuvumela ukuphumelela kwakho kuxhomekeke kuzo). Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba unokulungisa ubuthathaka ngokususa uxhomekeke kuloo nto.
Abacebisi abaphumeleleyo kakhulu baqonda oku. Bayazi ukuba ngubo kuphela abajongene nokuba bazuza kwiimandla okanye bafumana ubuthathaka. Umcebisi olungileyo akasichitha ixesha labo ezama "ukulungisa" ubuthathaka. Kunoko, baqinisekisa ukuba impumelelo yabo ayixhomekeke kwii-talente zabo. Ukuba kuyinto emele yenziwe, bayayisebenzisa.
Ngoko uqinisekisa njani ukuba awuyi kuvelisa ubuthathaka? Qiniseka ukuba uzenzele indima inokuthembela ngokusemandleni akho okwemvelo njengomcebisi, kwaye ngokuncinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka ekubuthathaka kwakho. Nika ingcamango ecacileyo kwiinkonzo oza kubonelela ngazo kwaye ubone ukuba zihambelana njani neetalente zendalo kunye neentalente. Zibuze ukuba unokwenza ubuthathaka ngokwenza njalo.
Njengomcebisi, unesimo esinqabileyo sokuba wenze iqela elifanelekileyo. Omnye owandisa ukuxhomekeka kwiitalente zakho zendalo, kwaye unciphise ukuxhomekeka kuye nayiphi na engekho iitalente. Khawukhumbule nje, ulawula ukuba ngaba wenza ubuthathaka okanye amandla, akukho mntu.