Indlela yoLuntu yokuXhawula iindleko zomtshato
Amaxesha kunye neemeko zitshintshile. Namhlanje, iintsapho ezimbini ziya kuhlulwa iindleko zomtshato kunye noxanduva lokucwangcisa. Kwiimeko ezininzi, umtshakazi nomyeni baya kuthatha iindleko ezininzi, ngokukodwa ukuba sele bekhulile kwaye baye baqalisa imisebenzi okanye oku akuwona umtshato wabo wokuqala.
Kwezinye iimeko, umtshakazi nomyeni bafumana imali engaphezu kwabazali babo, abanokufumana imali engenayo okanye ukucwangcisa umhlalaphantsi, ukwenzela ukuba izibini ezitshatileyo zifumane ezinye zeendleko ngokwabo.
Ngokunyuka kwePinterest njenge-go-to ngokucwangcisa umtshato, abafazi-kunye nabafazi-banokuba neenkwenkwezi ngeenkwenkwezi abazifumanayo, kwizinto ezincinci ezifana nesandi somtshato kwisigidi ngasinye kwisigxina kwizinto ezinkulu ezifana izidlo zeendwendwe nganye. Umyinge weendleko zomtshato ngoku u-$ 26,000 (khumbula, okulinganiselweyo!), Kwaye ukuphula i-bhanki kulula ukuba ngaba izinto ezininzi ezinokuzikhethela ziyafuneka.
Olunye umthambo othandwayo phakathi kweembhangqwana ezibandakanyekayo ngumtshato oya kuyo, okongeza izindleko ezininzi kungekhona kuphela kubazali kodwa kuzo zonke iindwendwe zomtshato, eziya kufuneka zihlawule ukuthutha kunye nokulala kwiimeko ezininzi.
Nangona imitshato igcwele isithethe, ukuyihlawula yinto eye yatshintshile, kunye nesizathu esihle.
Abazali bomtshakazi banokubulela kuba oku kubenza baphuphe uxanduva lokukhupha iindleko ezininzi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abazali abaninzi bazimisele ukukhupha i-penny enhle ngentombazana yabo encinci, kodwa ngandlela-thile nje kubonakala kungenakulungele ukuba kuthathelwe ingqalelo.
Ukwahlukana Kwemveli Yomtshato
Ukwahlukana komtshato wendabuko kunemigca emihle kakhulu ehlawulela oko.
Le ndlela isetyenziswe kwizizukulwana zaseMelika kwaye yayihlobo lomthetho ongabhalwanga kwisicwangciso somtshato.
Makhe sijonge ukuhlukana kwendabuko yeendleko zomtshato.
Intsapho yomtshakazi ihlawulwe ...
- Zonke izinto ezinxulumene nezinto zokubhala, kuquka iimemo zomtshato, amakhadi okugcina-umhla, iinkqubo kunye namakhadi wendawo.
- Izibhambathiso zeqela lomtshato kunye neentyantyambo zomtshato kunye nokwamkela.
- Umkhwa womyeni.
- Izipho zabagadi bamakhosikazi.
- Umfaki-zithombe kunye / okanye i-videographer.
- Ukwamkelwa komtshato, kuquka umphathi wecala, ibha, umculo, intando kunye nomtshato kunye nendawo yokumkela.
Umyeni okanye intsapho yakhe ikhokhelwa ...
- Ukubambisana kunye namacenge omtshato.
- Umphathiswa okanye umrhumo weRabi.
- Isidlo sokutya.
- Izipho zabagadi bamakhwenkwe.
- I-Boutonnieres kubagadi kunye nabagadi.
- Iholide.
Abanye abacebisi bomtshato bakhombisa ukuba intsapho yomyeni nayo iyahlawula iintyatyambo zomtshakazi kunye neengcorsage zoomama nogogo.
Ukuqwalasela ngakumbi ngeendleko zomtshato
Kukho rhoqo iimeko ezifanele ziqwalaselwe xa zikwahlula iindleko zomtshato. Ukuba enye intsapho ibaluleke kakhulu kunomnye okanye umntu olwa nzima ngamaxesha amanzima, kuya kuba neengqiqo ukwenza izibonelelo okanye ukunciphisa iindleko. Umtshato, ngokwenene, into ephathekayo-kwaye akukho mntu unokulindeleka ukuba achithe okungaphezulu kunokuba ayenako kwi-DJ, i-cocktail kunye ne-dinner.
Iindleko eziqhelekileyo zemitshato ziye zanyuka kwi-10 leminyaka edlulileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba yonke imitshato ibe nolwabiwo - mali wonke umntu angavumelana nalo. Ukuba ukuhlawula nayiphi na into yakutshanje kunye nemigqaliselo emikhulu yomtshato iba ngumngeni, ngoko kuya kuba ngcono ukuwashiya ngaphandle okanye ukunciphisa.
Ukuthumela enye intsapho kwinkokhelo ngosuku olunye akuyona indlela efanelekileyo yokuqala ubomi obutsha kunye. Khumbula ukuba akusiyo nje umtshakazi nomyeni odibeneyo, kodwa iintsapho zabo ziya kubelana ngeziganeko zobomi ngokunjalo. Kukulungele ukuqala ngemigangatho emihle!
Ehlelwe nguSharon Greenthal